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Anyone else have a dh that is not attracted to you at all?

Anonymous
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DH doesn't notice me. I lost a ton of weight (thinking it would help) and think I look pretty good. But I can put on sexy lingerie and he wont even notice. I know there has to be someone else out there that has the invisable wife syndrome too!
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 14, 2013 at 11:26 PM
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mommytoacloud
by Angel on Feb. 14, 2013 at 11:38 PM
Yep me only time dh gives me the light of day is when we fight or he needs to act all weepy
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 15, 2013 at 12:50 AM

I think the resentment towards each other has just built up so much that we cant see past it.  For you, maybe he had chubby chaser tendencies and you got too skinny and thats why you no longer attract him.  Mine didnt like when I dropped a lot of weight.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 15, 2013 at 12:52 AM
Yeah, but I think it's his antidepressant that's causing it. I...hope... :-/
3mommyandwifey
by on Feb. 15, 2013 at 12:52 AM
I can't get dh off me lol.... how long have you guys been married? Maybe he did like you a little chubby
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 15, 2013 at 12:54 AM

it's vice versa here, he's disgusting

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Feb. 15, 2013 at 12:58 AM
Mine. One of the drawbacks of marrying a man 15 yrs older than me. Nothing gets his motor running anymore
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 15, 2013 at 7:28 AM
4 years. An he definitely didn't like me fat. He doesn't like me skinny either, so I think he just doesn't like me at all.


Quoting 3mommyandwifey:

I can't get dh off me lol.... how long have you guys been married? Maybe he did like you a little chubby

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Feb. 15, 2013 at 7:30 AM
Same


Quoting Anonymous:

it's vice versa here, he's disgusting


Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Feb. 15, 2013 at 7:31 AM
We've been married 12 years, DH can't keep his hands off of me. Almost to the point of annoying sometimes. You need someone who appreciates you.
Elle.tea.22
by Ruby Member on Feb. 15, 2013 at 7:34 AM
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I wouldn't be married to him. 

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