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Low blow on valentines day

Anonymous
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Instead of getting "happy valentine's day" I got "all you want is my money".

The whole argument was about helping MIL with her mortgage payment and a 1100 power bill.I've never had a good relationship with the in-laws and dh knew better to come to me about money to help them.

MIL needs 5500 and since dh don't have it he thought I would be "ok" with giving her over 5k and never seeing it again.ummm no sir,I work VERY hard for what I got,I'm not giving away shit!

I said no.in 20 minutes I'm being told I'm mean and UNGREATFUL.I think it's "all about me" and everybody knows I'm only with him(its been 10 years ladies) for his money.

Dh makes 30k a year and holds a 45k 401k RETIREMENT fund.

Me on the other hand brings in 100k after taxes and have been for the last 3 year's.I laugh so hard at dh and then grabbed my 1099 and showed it to him.

So now I'm being blame for showing off.
I can't win for nothing.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 15, 2013 at 1:21 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 15, 2013 at 1:24 AM
He sounds butthurt.
And like a mommies boy. ugh!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 15, 2013 at 1:24 AM
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Whar does she need it for?

Obviously you make good money and this woman raised your dh so you should at least try to help her out.
Dabrutiful1
by Bronze Member on Feb. 15, 2013 at 1:25 AM
You ma'am...are livin with a hater. I cldn't imagine being married to a frenemy!
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by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 15, 2013 at 1:25 AM
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I wouldn't give any of my inlaws that kinda money! Maybe for something lifesaving....I'd think about it but just randomly hand over 5 grand?!? No!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 15, 2013 at 1:26 AM
She just got back from the Bahamas but can't pay her bills.she's borrowed money from dh and he has yet to see it.

She's 2 payments behind on her mortgage and then her power bill.


Quoting Anonymous:

Whar does she need it for?



Obviously you make good money and this woman raised your dh so you should at least try to help her out.

mrssummerlin
by Platinum Member on Feb. 15, 2013 at 1:27 AM
He's acting like a child.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Feb. 15, 2013 at 1:28 AM
I would help mine, but I have a good relationship with mine.
mrssummerlin
by Platinum Member on Feb. 15, 2013 at 1:29 AM
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Sounds like your MIL is a damn child too. I wouldn't help out either because some people need to learn the hard way.

Quoting Anonymous:

She just got back from the Bahamas but can't pay her bills.she's borrowed money from dh and he has yet to see it.



She's 2 payments behind on her mortgage and then her power bill.




Quoting Anonymous:

Whar does she need it for?





Obviously you make good money and this woman raised your dh so you should at least try to help her out.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 15, 2013 at 1:30 AM
That would be a definite hell no....

Bills first...fun second

Quoting Anonymous:

She just got back from the Bahamas but can't pay her bills.she's borrowed money from dh and he has yet to see it.



She's 2 payments behind on her mortgage and then her power bill.




Quoting Anonymous:

Whar does she need it for?





Obviously you make good money and this woman raised your dh so you should at least try to help her out.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 15, 2013 at 1:30 AM
She's one of the few I dislike.she will talk shit about you but when something is said about her she wants to fight.


Quoting mrssummerlin:

Sounds like your MIL is a damn child too. I wouldn't help out either because some people need to learn the hard way.



Quoting Anonymous:

She just got back from the Bahamas but can't pay her bills.she's borrowed money from dh and he has yet to see it.





She's 2 payments behind on her mortgage and then her power bill.






Quoting Anonymous:

Whar does she need it for?







Obviously you make good money and this woman raised your dh so you should at least try to help her out.


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