The whole argument was about helping MIL with her mortgage payment and a 1100 power bill.I've never had a good relationship with the in-laws and dh knew better to come to me about money to help them.
MIL needs 5500 and since dh don't have it he thought I would be "ok" with giving her over 5k and never seeing it again.ummm no sir,I work VERY hard for what I got,I'm not giving away shit!
I said no.in 20 minutes I'm being told I'm mean and UNGREATFUL.I think it's "all about me" and everybody knows I'm only with him(its been 10 years ladies) for his money.
Dh makes 30k a year and holds a 45k 401k RETIREMENT fund.
Me on the other hand brings in 100k after taxes and have been for the last 3 year's.I laugh so hard at dh and then grabbed my 1099 and showed it to him.
So now I'm being blame for showing off.
I can't win for nothing.