Dh has a daughter and we have two kids together. He pays cs every two weeks and a LOT of cs. We sometimes struggle living paycheck to paycheck and before any bashes, I know that his kid was born first, we didn't have to have kids, blah blah blah. We have a little extra money due to some overtime. I mentioned to dh buying some clothes for our kids for spring. He said sure, we could get all three of them stuff. His dd doesn't live with us and doesn't even have overnight visits so the clothes wouldn't be left at our house. Bm gets a LOT of cs to make sure she is clothed. I told him I didn't think that was fair and wanted to spend the clothes on the two that don't get stuff often. He is mad. Am I wrong?
Eta- his dd always wears gapkids and not clearance. My kids Target and that is also where the new stuff would be coming from Bec again, we don't have a ton of money.