The social worker finally got ahold of them on Wednesday. She reminded them of the legal agreement we made and asked that they get the pictures to me asap. The mother had her attorney call the adoption agency and in the end, my email address was given. Bd mom emailed me a few pictures last night. She didn't say anything about why the delay. Just the attachment. I really don't care, just glad I got the pictures and we didn't have to take it further.
the social worker was apologetic, but I realize it wasn't her fault. I'm just happy that bd seems happy and well cared for.