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We have'nt had sex since christmas eve and I dont really care is that bad

Anonymous
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Well the title says it all. My hubby and I do not have sex and for some reason it doesnt really bother me. Well maybe I am concerned that we should be. I think its from my bc pills, but I have to take them so how do I get in the mood. Im just never in the mood and he knows Im this way so he never asks anymore. Something needs to change. So how do I get into it? Do es this happen to anyone else?
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 15, 2013 at 8:46 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 15, 2013 at 8:47 PM
Nope, I've had it every night this weeks sometimes twice.
SadeAyosmom
by on Feb. 15, 2013 at 8:49 PM

its been 2 weeks due to periods and IUD insertion for me.

and i chased him out the door... just then 'when you coming back?'

i think sex is very important in intimacy. we went months after DS was born and totally fell out of intimacy with eachother. it took a long time for our intimacy to come back. dont lose it!

trust me building is so much harder then fine tuning.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 15, 2013 at 8:50 PM
Sounds like you dont have any problems in that area, good for you:-)


Quoting Anonymous:

Nope, I've had it every night this weeks sometimes twice.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 15, 2013 at 8:50 PM
I don't like to have sex with dh but it's because he treats me like I'm invisable. If he wants a good lay he needs to show me that I'm special to him. I don't know if you're the same way.
Kaybean
by Ruby Member on Feb. 15, 2013 at 8:51 PM
No way, we have sex nearly every single day. I can't imagine not having sex with my DH or not wanting to and my DH is thankful I'm not one if the women who never want it.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 15, 2013 at 8:51 PM
Thanks but were do I start, Im afraid Im gonna have to watch porn or something just to get in the mood.


Quoting SadeAyosmom:

its been 2 weeks due to periods and IUD insertion for me.

and i chased him out the door... just then 'when you coming back?'

i think sex is very important in intimacy. we went months after DS was born and totally fell out of intimacy with eachother. it took a long time for our intimacy to come back. dont lose it!

trust me building is so much harder then fine tuning.


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 15, 2013 at 8:53 PM

You just have to push past those feelings and go for it! Once you do it, you'll be glad you did! Trust me, I get into those slumps too. Try morning sex, it always seems to be easier for me to get into!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 15, 2013 at 8:54 PM
Im sorry your feeling this way, my DH is a very sweet and understanding man. This is something I have had to deal with. Just wish it wasnt so hard.


Quoting Anonymous:

I don't like to have sex with dh but it's because he treats me like I'm invisable. If he wants a good lay he needs to show me that I'm special to him. I don't know if you're the same way.

HippiePotpie
by on Feb. 15, 2013 at 8:54 PM
Try adamandeve.com they have all sorts of toys,lubes,books,and movies. They help keep the spark in our marriage. Talk to him about it too. The more you are open the more you will feel like being intimate. :-)
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SadeAyosmom
by on Feb. 15, 2013 at 8:55 PM
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fake it. force it just act like you are all over him.

thats what i did. then i actually started to feel sexy and like having sex with him. we went 8 months... it got to the point where at about 5 months we realised it had been that long then another 3 months of awkwardness where we both realised but did nothing. finally i made the move.

Quoting Anonymous:

Thanks but were do I start, Im afraid Im gonna have to watch porn or something just to get in the mood.


Quoting SadeAyosmom:

its been 2 weeks due to periods and IUD insertion for me.

and i chased him out the door... just then 'when you coming back?'

i think sex is very important in intimacy. we went months after DS was born and totally fell out of intimacy with eachother. it took a long time for our intimacy to come back. dont lose it!

trust me building is so much harder then fine tuning.



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