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Can you explain to me why she's mad?

Anonymous
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My SIL (brothers wife) is upset because my parents, my husband and I have booked a trip to Vegas for the end of April. 2 weeks before her due date. Does she have a reason to be upset?

We just found out she was pregnant and they were getting married in September. They got married in December. We planned this trip for December but couldn't because my mom had to spend money to help them get a house. So we changed it to April.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 15, 2013 at 9:03 PM
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Two_Hearts
by on Feb. 15, 2013 at 9:04 PM

Well....how many trips do you all go on ? 

is her and her DH usually included in them ? 


misskriss10
by Platinum Member on Feb. 15, 2013 at 9:04 PM
Maybe she`s afraid she`ll go into labor early and you guys wont be there.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 15, 2013 at 9:05 PM
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Yeah, she's probably afraid she'll go into labor and everyone will miss the birth... And for obvious reasons they weren't invited... Two reasons to be upset.
AA2.0
by Silver Member on Feb. 15, 2013 at 9:05 PM

I would guess she's worried about going into labor early and all of you being gone.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 15, 2013 at 9:05 PM
We have been on 2 or 3. And they just pregnant and married really fast... I mean we don't know her very well yet. I don't think she could fly anyway at 38 weeks pregnant


Quoting Two_Hearts:

Well....how many trips do you all go on ? 

is her and her DH usually included in them ? 



Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 15, 2013 at 9:06 PM
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yes, she should have planned her pregnancy better.

SRUsarahSC
by Platinum Member on Feb. 15, 2013 at 9:06 PM

I wouldn't be but my SIL would have been if we would have....she's overly sensitive normally and while prego it got much worse. She is probably just upset that you guys might not be there for the baby being born if she goes early.

JayeC2
by Silver Member on Feb. 15, 2013 at 9:06 PM

This, although I didn't want my SIL at my birth, so IDK.  Then again, I'm an only, so I really only wanted DH and my mom.


Quoting misskriss10:

Maybe she`s afraid she`ll go into labor early and you guys wont be there.



CodeBlue
by on Feb. 15, 2013 at 9:07 PM
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She feels excluded and probably feels unimportant - she could go into labor while you all are gone - that doesn't exactly scream "We are here for you and happy for you!"
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 15, 2013 at 9:07 PM
Jealousy and selfishness
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