would you feel a little hurt?

[ninjakids]

Okay so a cousin of mine who i was always close with since i was a kid got pregnant a few years ago. She was living away and no one but her mother and our aunts knew (back story she dated a guy who died...she was 18 and a few months later started dating someone else and they got pregnant) but noone else because she wanted to tell her deceased bfs mother before she heard it anywhere else ( they are close ). I was a little hurt that i wasnt included but brushed it off.

Just now i got a message from her. Shes due may 10th with her second. Im a little hurt that she didnt tell me.

Would you guys be a little hurt?

[Anonymous]

do you guys talk otherwise?

[ninjakids]

Yes we do. Havent hung out in awhile since she now lives about 7 hours away though :(

Quoting Anonymous:

do you guys talk otherwise?

[NewMamaBoo]

Not since you don't live close and stay close. It doesn't sound like you are as close as back then. But now she wants to share so I'd be happy with that

[Anonymous]

Quoting ninjakids:

Yes we do. Havent hung up in awhile since she now lives aboit 7 hours away though :(

Quoting Anonymous:

do you guys talk otherwise?

hung out?

if you arent a part of her circle let it go

[ninjakids]

Lol her 'circle'. Again both of us have kids where we cant drive 7 hours straight with them lol.

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting ninjakids:

Yes we do. Havent hung up in awhile since she now lives aboit 7 hours away though :(

Quoting Anonymous:

do you guys talk otherwise?

hung out?

if you arent a part of her circle let it go

[ninjakids]

We stayed close (communication) we just lived to far away to see each other face to face.

Quoting NewMamaBoo:

Not since you don't live close and stay close. It doesn't sound like you are as close as back then. But now she wants to share so I'd be happy with that

[Anonymous]

Quoting ninjakids:

Lol her 'circle'. Again both of us have kids where we cant drive 7 hours straight with them lol.

why are you attempting to argue with me?

If I lived 7 hours away from a person who brushed me off, i wouldnt be upset when they did it again? No.

what in the world are you looking for?

Oh, wait, Yeah, you're right she is a vile bitch and you should punch her in the ovaries for not telling you she was pregnant

because your need to know about her reproductive capabilities is the most important thing ever!

[rosemagic01]

Maybe she's just used to hiding it? Or worried people will think badly of her?

[ninjakids]

I think it may be the second reason (people were nasty to her about her first because they were inducing her for a week with the gel and then decided it was time to use pitocin....on her deceased bfs birthday).

I dont think its the fact that she didnt tell me as the fact that she may have felt that she couldnt tell me.

Quoting rosemagic01:

Maybe she's just used to hiding it? Or worried people will think badly of her?

[RaynesMommy07]

Maybe just don't want ppl to know. Get over it.