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Gender reassisgnment recipients have a responsiblilty

Posted by on Feb. 16, 2013 at 12:42 PM
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To tell potential partners that they did indeed undergo a sex change.  I've seen stories throughout the years where the person did not tell the other party.  I consider that fraud, and a very important fact about yourself that you are leaving out.  Should the other person not want to continue a relationship with you based on that information is a chance you must take.  If they don't accept it then they are not right for you.

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MeAndTommyLee
by Platinum Member on Feb. 16, 2013 at 1:17 PM

BUMP!

MeAndTommyLee
by Platinum Member on Feb. 16, 2013 at 1:17 PM

BUMP!

purpleducky
by Ruby Member on Feb. 16, 2013 at 1:19 PM
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banana-bear
by on Feb. 16, 2013 at 1:20 PM
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I agree.
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littlesippycup
by Ruby Member on Feb. 16, 2013 at 1:21 PM
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I feel like that's fair.

MeAndTommyLee
by Platinum Member on Feb. 16, 2013 at 1:23 PM
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Guess you don't agree.  Well, there are two people in a relationship and one person's fear of rejection does not override the others right to know.  Again, if the other person is not okay with your right to become a different sex they are not right for you in the first place.  Negating peoples rights is never a good thing. 


Quoting purpleducky:

banging head into wall


 

catrig
by Platinum Member on Feb. 16, 2013 at 1:24 PM
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I agree that they should share that info. It affects their ability to procreate.
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Sekirei
by LoKitty on Feb. 16, 2013 at 1:25 PM
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That is not something you should bring up on the first date... 


MeAndTommyLee
by Platinum Member on Feb. 16, 2013 at 1:25 PM

As all relationships ought to be.  That is a big omission that has the potential to cause serious harm to a relationship.  Being dishonest is no ones `right'.


Quoting littlesippycup:

I feel like that's fair.


 

purpleducky
by Ruby Member on Feb. 16, 2013 at 1:26 PM
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My issue is with how people don't see how complicated the issue is. Not every transgender person has surgery. As far as those pre-surgery, I have not come across one who was not willing to tell their SO. The problem is with when to tell them. As for those post-surgery, I do not agree that they have to disclose that they were born the opposite sex. Did you disclose everything to your husband when you were dating? I doubt it. What matters is who the person is now.

Quoting MeAndTommyLee:

Guess you don't agree.  Well, there are two people in a relationship and one person's fear of rejection does not override the others right to know.  Again, if the other person is not okay with your right to become a different sex they are not right for you in the first place.  Negating peoples rights is never a good thing. 


Quoting purpleducky:

banging head into wall




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