I'm sorry. We don't want to invite your "special needs" child to our daughter's party!!!!
I know it may be mean,,,but dangit...it's MY daughter's birthday...and all your son does is yell, talk too loudly, destroy things, and spit.
Gee, why am I the bad guy for not wanting him to ruin our party??? It wasn't cheap!!!!
I'm not trying to be mean....but I'm not sure why these parents are so pissed. Our kids aren't even that close...