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Do you think 4, is to many kids for a couple??

Anonymous
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We only have 3 right now, all 3 years apart, all boys.

It never fails that everyone has an opinon about it. We get the, " Oh, 3 boys! You have to try for a girl." ( As if my boys aren't good enough.) I always just laugh it off.

But, then there is the, " 3 kids huh, you know what causes that right? " *eye roll* Or the ever so nice, "Wow, are you trying to make your own basketball team??"

Well I can only imagine the eye rolls, and lovely comments we would get if we had a fourth. But, that has always been the plan. We have always wanted 4 children, as long as we were emotionally, physically, and of course financially able.

It got me wondering though, does everyone that see's a family with more then 2 kids, think that couple is crazy?? Lol

So, Ladies what do you think???
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 17, 2013 at 1:43 AM
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Amybelle
by Ruby Member on Feb. 17, 2013 at 1:44 AM

I have 5!! Wish I could have another!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 17, 2013 at 1:45 AM
We have 4, but we can afford them and we don't care what people think! Win/win!
SadiasMomma
by Gold Member on Feb. 17, 2013 at 1:45 AM
Its not for me but I don't judge.
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bonniemommy100
by Silver Member on Feb. 17, 2013 at 1:46 AM

I have 4 and will be ttc in 3 or 4 years so nope no to many imo

wkukid
by Beach Bum on Feb. 17, 2013 at 1:47 AM

If you can afford it without assistance you should have as many as you want.

livingforthem83
by Gold Member on Feb. 17, 2013 at 1:47 AM
I have 4. My sister always says that she can't remember me not being pregnant. Well my oldest 2 are 8 years apart from my youngest 2. And my youngest is 1. People are stupid. The ages are 11, 10, 2, and 1.
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areles
by on Feb. 17, 2013 at 1:48 AM
my nephew has eight. nothing fazes me anymore.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 17, 2013 at 1:48 AM
I don't care how many kids people choose to have.
Jebekarue
by on Feb. 17, 2013 at 1:48 AM

I am the youngest of 5, I have 1 brother and 3 sisters, my brother was #2 kid.  I have 2 kids (one of each) and not going to have anymore.  I say to each his own :)  As long as you are prepared mentally, physically, emotionally and financially I don't see why not, just please don't be another 19 kids and counting family :)  I think thats nuts!!! 

numonestunar
by Platinum Member on Feb. 17, 2013 at 1:48 AM
My good friend and her husband have 7. Their oldest is 18 and their youngest kiddos (twins!) are 2 days old.
While having that many is not for me, I think it's great. Big families are awesome. :)
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