I work 2 jobs outside the home and also work from home and do some party plan stuff.
Last year I won a scolarship to complete a diploma and only need a few more units to complete but its been hectic trying to fit it all in along with my online gaming commitments. I have had to give up host of my group I just don't have the time to coordinate things.
My friend and I would have a catch up session on the weekend that was originaly for a couple of hours then somehow it extended for dinner and now until the early hours of the mornng.
My friend has never married and has lived at home with her parents all her life and been babied. She cannot cook or do much around the house as she's never had to.
2 years ago her mum died and dad passed only a few months ago. The house needs to be cleaned and ready for sale but she refuses to do anything - she has 30days from the date of sale to vacate so until its sold she doesn't have to do anything right?
She won't look for a new place as she doesn't have to do that either untill the house is sold.
Last year she was told by her boss that she needs to do a course in horticulture to keep her job. They paid for her to do the course. I thought it could be fun to turn our Saturday catchups into study days just like we used to do in HS.
That lasted a week. She couldn't do the work which is at cert 2 level - just basic naming of plants.
She completed HS ... I didn't. I left at 16.
Her boss now wants her to attempt the course again but she must pay the assessment fees, she needs to complete the activities in the book and mail them through. Well now she's upset at this and thinks her work should pay again if they want her to do it.
For the last three weeks she has been coming over every day. She turned up this morning at 9 and didn't leave until 6pm... After I had given her lunch and dinner. She has done this the last 4 days straight. She follows me around the house like a lost puppy. I can't get any work done, I've got reports due, I'm getting behind in my study.
When she's not here she contantly messages me, usually about her chronic constipation, what she's eatenor drinken or what she's bought down the street.
Help I'm getting sick of the sight of her,the noise of her car and starting to leave my phone turned off or directed to voice mail just to avoid her messages.
Am I becoming a frenemy?