Im absolutely devastated. And scared. Not sure how to get through this. *etu*etu2*
My sister and my BIL were in a car wreck last night. They are gone. Just gone. I am so floored, I can't even digest this. I haven't even cried is that normal? I can't even think Im so numb. Just gone. I will never see either one of them again.
My nephew is only 4 months old. He is at my BIL's moms, she was babysitting him last night so they could go out and have their first break away from him since he was born.
She's bringing him over later today. She and my BIL's brother are coming and helping me clear my craft room. It will be my nephews new bedroom, I suddenly have a baby now.
I don't know how I'll get through this. Or what happens now. Do I need a lawyer? Who is going to arrange things, what about their stuff.
How will I go on without them both?
Thank you for the prayers and advice. BIL's mother found their lawyer's paper work and a will. SHe is coming over later with them, they are waiting for her ex dh van to bring over the crib ect. She will be calling the lawyer when she gets here. All I can do it wait I guess for now. She is an amazing woman, thank God for her. Thank you again for the prayers and well wishes and advice. BTW I know its weird Im on cafemom, I don't have anything to do but wait and am going crazy just sitting here thinking it over and over. This is a good distraction.
Thank you again for all the well wishes. I broke down once my nephew was in my arms, it's all so real now. My BIL's family has been a blessing, thank goodness for them. We did call the lawyer, he will be meeting with the family on Monday, and my BIL's parents have been taking care of the arrangements so far. My sister and her husband left my nephew in my care. He hasn't quite settled in, family and friends have been gathering at my home since this afternoon. But his room is set up now, we all needed something to do so it didnt take long. We all find comfort being with K. My ds7 is struggling, he is sad, confused.