Dh and I have a 16 month old who he has hardly ever helped with, he's always too busy with something else, even when he didn't have a job. Now we're pregnant again and tonight he really pushed my buttons! He's been preoccupied all weekend and after ds's bath (which Dh didn't help with), Dh was in the garage. I kept telling ds to come here, chill out, hold on, etc., then I said "this would be so much easier if your dad would help!" So Dh yells from the garage "fuck you! Shut up!" That pissed me off. So he comes in and he's like "what? Why did you need help?" I'm like uh, I've been needing help for 10 minutes and you couldn't help, now I'm done. So he goes into the kitchen and I'm trying to get ds to sleep and I can hear him in the kitchen whispering on the phone. I turned the tv off because I always do when I'm trying to get ds to bed. Well Dh comes in because I asked ds where the nipple shield was and Dh looks where he saw it last. I said "it's not up there" and he says "fuck you".
So (yes, his friend is still on the phone) I yell "FUCK YOU YOU FUCKING NO GOOD PIECE OF SHIT!!!"
I've been asking since ds was born for help! I told him what happens when the baby gets here? I'll have to put a 2 y/o and a newborn to bed, I'll have to do everything by myself.
I'm sick of feelin like a weekend wife!