I am divorced with two kids, a 5 yr old dd and 4 yr old es. I have been divorced for one year and three months from their dad. It's been a lot of back and forth. I have given him so many chances even after the divorce but he always chose to mess them up. He'd lie, cheat or just say or do horrible things to me, was abusive in every way while we were married. He has continued verbal and emotional abuse off and on since the divorce. Has called me every horrible name in the book and said some very harsh things to me. Yet I've continued to be nice to try to keep the peace. But now I'm dating this great guy, he likes my kids and they like him. He will do any and everything for me and I don't have to ask. I actually don't ask for anything. He's sweet, respectful, nice, considerate, tall, handsome, hardworking, and honest. Just an all around great guy and I couldn't ask for a better guy. But if course since I've finally moved on, now my ex husband is saying he misses me, wants me and the kids back and he wants to be a good father and he's done with the bs. He promises no more lies, cheating, games, being mean or any of that. He promises if I give him another chance things will be different and nit bad. But I can't trust him and I've moved in. Yet he's making me feel bad for not wanting to give him another chance. Am I wrong? Part of me will always care about him because we have kids together, we were married and I truly loved him but I couldn't continue to let him hurt me or let our kids grow up in an environment like that, so Ieft him and divorced him. Am I wrong for not giving him another chance? Sorry this is so long. Thanks for reading.