My husband invited his friends over to spend their vacation at our house without asking me first. They live in another country and ask him if they could come over. He just informed me.
I told him that wasn't acceptable and even if he was sure that I would say yes he should have told me before he agreed. His answer was I am the chief of this family and if you want equality you have to pay your half of the bills.
I work part time and give him one of my checks. But he does not shut up about me not paying enough bills in the house. I am really tired of this. I take care of the kids , the cleaning, all the kids expenses.
I am overreacting? Is it too much to ask him to at least ask me first? They will be strangers living with me and my kids for about a month and I don't even have a say in it because I don't pay the mortgage?