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you want ME to write you a reference? lmao yeah right

Anonymous
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So i found out dh and out babysitter was a having a affair. She kept telling me it was a mistake and she was sorry. Well she just sent a text to me about writing a reference about how good she was as a sitter. Really you want ME to write a reference about how good you are. This chick has lost het damn mind.

Oh and then she said she wants to be friends again cause she misses me. Right i wasn't born yesterday. Some people have some nerve. Would you write one?
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 18, 2013 at 10:53 AM
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nancym3
by Silver Member on Feb. 18, 2013 at 10:54 AM
Hell no I wouldn't. I wouldn't even respond to her.
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JZB
by Gold Member on Feb. 18, 2013 at 10:55 AM
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Sure I would write her a reference it just would be a VERY honest one.
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Buggy979
by Platinum Member on Feb. 18, 2013 at 10:57 AM
Tell her to ask your dh! Are you still with him?
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EAzizM
by Erica on Feb. 18, 2013 at 10:57 AM
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I would. And I would write EVERYTHING that happened while she was employed.

LovelyMommy24
by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 10:57 AM
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Do it and say exactly what she did.
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Lizardannie1966
by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 10:57 AM

I would tell her that given the circumstances, you won't be able to write a positive reference and even beyond what occurred between her and your Dh and whether or not she was a good babysitter otherwise.

She sounds very young and/or immature for wanting to have the friendship back.

iwillstapleyou
by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 10:57 AM
I think this is the perfect opportunity to write her a reference. A very detailed reference.
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FooLynRoo
by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 10:57 AM

LOL no i wouldn't write her one

MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Feb. 18, 2013 at 10:57 AM

 

Hannahluvsdogs
by Ruby Member on Feb. 18, 2013 at 10:58 AM
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This. You'll be doing other parents a favor.

Quoting JZB:

Sure I would write her a reference it just would be a VERY honest one.
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