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Divorce or Cheat, pick one

Anonymous
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The all knowing ladies on Cafemom tells me I'm being a selfish idiot for divorcing my husband because I don't like him, find him repulsive even though he's never cheated or abused me. Would you rather me cheat on him than divorce?

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 18, 2013 at 12:59 PM
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brebugmom91
by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 1:00 PM
Better to divroce if you don't want to work it out.
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MrsRinehart2010
by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 1:01 PM

 divorce because cheating is just mean.

KairisMama
by Emerald Member on Feb. 18, 2013 at 1:01 PM

 If the marriage is over, it's over. DIVORCE.

LilliesValley
by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 1:01 PM
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I'd rather you divorce but that's just me, its your life. But I think cheating is worse because you are breaking an apparently trust. Divorce is just saying I give up. The other personal might be devestated but not the same way as cheating. Jmot.
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tifbrown
by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 1:02 PM
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If you aren't willing to put in any work, then there is no point to stay married. Can't force love. 

Sj218
by Gold Member on Feb. 18, 2013 at 1:02 PM
End one thing before you start another. Divorce is WAY harder than you expect when you go into it, but still a better choice than cheating.
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ShannaBee
by Platinum Member on Feb. 18, 2013 at 1:03 PM
Divorce is better in that situation.
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misskriss10
by Ruby Member on Feb. 18, 2013 at 1:04 PM
I dont think divorcing is selfish at all. It`s a hell of a lot better than cheating.
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morethanamemory
by Silver Member on Feb. 18, 2013 at 1:04 PM
Divorce.

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mandaday
by Silver Member on Feb. 18, 2013 at 1:04 PM
Divorce. What if you and the new guy decide you want to be together for real? A relationship that starts as an affair has a real disadvantage.
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