Some people think it is selfish to have more than one child ? Its something that has bugged me for awhile . Thoughts ladies
i think everyone is entitled to their oppinion --- i think whatever size family suits you is fine
I've never known anyone who felt this way.
Quoting slashteddy:I've heard a variety of reasons, from environmental concerns to the vast number of children already in foster care.
this is what I have heard as well...
Who are these people? I only have one, but feel to each his/her own. Many people think it's selfish to have only one. I feel that if you can afford to have more than one, go for it. I do get annoyed by women who really just "need to have a baby in their arms" so have 5 or 6, not showing much interest when they are no longer babies. Or people who know they can't afford to have more and continue to do so. That said, people's circumstances change, and what one was affordable may no longer be.
I don't. I love having a sister and brother, and my kids love having a sister and brother. Life would not be complete without them all!
i have my mother in law is one she thought dh and i should stop after we had our son we had one of each we didnt need anymore i've had people call me selfish because i have more than 2 children
Quoting SunshineBird:I've never known anyone who felt this way.
Odd.. I think a sibling can be an absolute GIFT!
My sons are best friends. Granted theyre only 4 and 5, they literally do everything together.
I have one and have heard it's selfish of me to NOT have more. I like your version better, it'd get my in-laws out of my hair.
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