Originally she was supposed to get the kids Saturday evening but since dh was off Sunday we wanted to keep them until that evening. We didn't hear anything all day yesterday about when she was picking them up and since they didn't have school today we decided to keep them another night. Dh had to work today so he sent her a text letting her know I would drop them off around noon. At 11 last night she texted back that she had an appt until 5 and would get them then. Well thanks for the heads up. Her dd tried to call earlier and no answer. I sent a text asking when she would be here so I can have them ready and nothing. It's after 5 and I haven't heard a thing all day. She's with her boyfriend. I know this because she's posting it all over fb. She's been doing this crap a lot lately to the point her mom even called dh worried about how she is spiriling out of control. I don't know what to do. I can't take them over there because chances are she isn't home. I'm all for keeping them hell I'd be fine with dh getting custody if it meant we didn't have to put up with this shit anymore.