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DH would NEVER cheat on me! **EDIT**

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

Why is it so hard for some women to believe that there are faithful men in this world?

If I had even a small suspicion that DH would cheat on me, I would have never married him. lol!

I feel bad for women who feel like they cannot expect fidelity and commitment from the man they chose to marry.

SORRY LADIES. I CHOOSE NOT TO LIVE MY LIFE "PREPARING" FOR THE DAY DH DECIDES TO BE UNFAITHFUL. LOL! I KNOW MY DH, I KNOW MYSELF, AND MORE IMPORTANTLY WE BOTH RESPECT OUR RELATIONSHIP ENOUGH TO COMMUNICATE WHEN ONE OF US ISN'T FEELING COMPLETELY EMOTIONALLY, PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, OR SEXUALLY FULFILLED.

DH WOULD NEVER CHEAT ON ME AND I FEEL SORRY FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE CURRENTLY IN A RELATIONSHIP IN WHICH YOU ARE UNABLE TO FEEL THE SAME.

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 18, 2013 at 8:45 PM
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mcclainprincess
by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 8:58 PM
Funny.. I felt the same way about my husband..


Quoting Anonymous:

 lol. I don't recall saying I am better than anyone.


However, I do feel like DH and I got it right...somehow or another (maybe luck?), we respect each other enough to talk about things before things get so bad it's to the point of no return




Quoting mcclainprincess:

Awww. I use to be EXACTLY like you..

I'm a single Mom now, left when i discovered my husband was cheating on me.

You act as if every woman who was cheated on has never felt the way you do.. Why in hell would anyone marry a person they didn't trust? A person they didn't really intend to spend the rest of their life with?

Get of your high horse.. You are no better than a woman who has been cheated on.



 


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Anonymous
by Anonymous 13 on Feb. 18, 2013 at 8:58 PM
I never thought mine would. He did. However I think plenty of men take their vows seriously.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 18, 2013 at 9:00 PM
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We are on 10 but I said this less than a year into our relationship.

My husband believes in soulmates, one true love just like I do. He would never cheat.

Laugh away:)


Quoting kidlover2:

Ehhh.... if your spouse has been with you more than 15 years I would say I'd probably agree with you. Anything under 5 years I'd laugh and say "sure! I hope it works out for you!" My ex cheated on me after 11 years together...

butterflymama21
by Bronze Member on Feb. 18, 2013 at 9:00 PM
Yup, mine is truly the same ;) we are blessed people. He also doesn't look at other women or even get a hard on looking at other women or porn!! I have tested it several times lol.Every man is different :)
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 14 on Feb. 18, 2013 at 9:01 PM

It is sad, it's sad that there aren't too many men that wouldn't cause that doubt. Plenty of good men but way more douches.

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 18, 2013 at 9:02 PM
Bc it is MC and we all have thoughts, feelings, opinions and spill them on here.

Isnt that the point of this group?


Quoting Schleetle:

If you are secure then why even bother saying anything about anyone else?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 18, 2013 at 9:02 PM

 this was sort of my point. My DH does (take his vows very seriously).


Quoting Anonymous:

I never thought mine would. He did. However I think plenty of men take their vows seriously.


 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 15 on Feb. 18, 2013 at 9:04 PM
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My husband is much the same way.  I have never met a more loyal, thoughtful man.  We've been married 15 years and he always gets the door for me, even the car door, every single time.  Every holiday is an event with gifts, and he surprises me with trips to Europe, just to catch a theater production I want to see.  It's like he listens for me to talk about anything I want so he can get it for me to make me happy.  He is the most thoughtful and kind person I've ever met.

I just don't understand why some women marry the men they do.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 18, 2013 at 9:05 PM
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after 9 years of marriage I still  feel blessed every day. He is pretty great =)

Quoting butterflymama21:

Yup, mine is truly the same ;) we are blessed people


 

WonderWomanSV
by Member on Feb. 18, 2013 at 9:05 PM
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Same here. I am 100% confidant that dh would never cheat. And I'm sure he has the same confidence in me.
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