I spend what money I do have on whatever my child needs. I am the one taking care of her when she is sick. Just because she goes to her grandmas house almost every night means nothing. I would be a bitch to deny them the right to spend time with their only grandchild. If they want to take her to their house I'm gonna let them because they both enjoy it. Yes my mother helps me out some but that doesn't mean I don't take care of my child.