Living with Ex-Husband 1 year after Divorce and you're a SAHM...

[Anonymous]

what would be on your to-do list?

ETA: this is obviously hypothetical. Let's say you don't have family to take you in and you've been a SAHM for 4 yrs. Now answer it knowing this info.

[graciebsgranny]

 A job, so I could afford to live on my own and support myself and my child!

[luvmyaustin]

Once a divorce was to start i wouldn't be living with the ex.

[mrspena]

Move out, get a job, go back to school, sell the van or trade in for a smaller economy car to lower car payments

[elliem87]

Get a job. Save up money. Get the bare minimums and move.

[Sarah5708Emma]

Finding a job asap, my own vehicle, and child care. Once those were taken care of I woiuld be looking for a new place to live asap. I know if it came down to it though and dh & I were to seperate, he would leavethe house but continue to pay for us to live here until I got on my feet. It's been over 6 years since I've worked outside of the home so he would be understanding. Plus, it would take one of us the cheat or physical abuse to file for divorce. When I took my vows, I meant forever. We have had our problems, and are currently working through a big one right now. But we fix things instead of giving up.

[mybabybugssmile]

Plot his death.

[Anonymous]

My ex and I lived together for 2 months after our divorce was filed. I got a job AND went back to school.

[WifeyC]

I would get a job to be able to support myself and my child and move out before the year is up.  

Of course, I wouldn't want to live with DH if he was now my ex.

[justpeachy71904]

Get a job!

[brettsmomma]

Get my resume fired up, find a job asap and save until I have to leave.