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First date- What would you do in this situation?

Anonymous
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You've had a great 4th date with a handsome guy. As far as you know, he is only dating you and not being intimate with anyone else. For this date, you decided to have dinner at his house. This man/woman lives alone and you're 100% sure he doesn't have any room mates. In the middle of the date, you excuse yourself to use the bathroom. While using the bathroom you notice a used condom in the garbage pail and it's evidently fresh. Dinner has not yet been served. What do you do?

ETA: He has claimed since meeting, that he has been celibate 7 years and is not sexually active.

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 19, 2013 at 2:20 PM
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JoshuasMommii
by Bronze Member on Feb. 19, 2013 at 2:21 PM
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Ask him
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 19, 2013 at 2:22 PM

bump

owl0210
by Emerald Member on Feb. 19, 2013 at 2:23 PM
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Well four dates does not automatically mean you're in a committed relationship unless that has already been discussed.

BeAmour
by Tonya on Feb. 19, 2013 at 2:24 PM
Ask him what's up.
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edelweiss23
by on Feb. 19, 2013 at 2:25 PM
This


Quoting owl0210:

Well four dates does not automatically mean you're in a committed relationship unless that has already been discussed.


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Two_Hearts
by on Feb. 19, 2013 at 2:25 PM
well it depends..
if i were sleeping with him...i would ask if he was sleeping with anyone else.

if i haven't slept with him..i would probably excuse myself and go.

if a man is really interested in you..he would only want to sleep with you
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SommelierMom
by Emerald Member on Feb. 19, 2013 at 2:25 PM
If this is only the 4th date, why would you believe he's not sexually involved with anyone else?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 19, 2013 at 2:26 PM
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ask him about it. Then leave. I would listen to what he had to say and leave. He might be expecting some and who knows if the sheets were washed yet. I'd leave and never look back.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 19, 2013 at 2:26 PM
Quoting Two_Hearts:

well it depends..
if i were sleeping with him...i would ask if he was sleeping with anyone else.

if i haven't slept with him..i would probably excuse myself and go.

if a man is really interested in you..he would only want to sleep with you



It's only the fourth date.
LAXmom21
by Ruby Member on Feb. 19, 2013 at 2:26 PM
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I would not assume he wasn't dating anyone else unless he said so.
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