First date- What would you do in this situation?

[Anonymous]

You've had a great 4th date with a handsome guy. As far as you know, he is only dating you and not being intimate with anyone else. For this date, you decided to have dinner at his house. This man/woman lives alone and you're 100% sure he doesn't have any room mates. In the middle of the date, you excuse yourself to use the bathroom. While using the bathroom you notice a used condom in the garbage pail and it's evidently fresh. Dinner has not yet been served. What do you do?

ETA: He has claimed since meeting, that he has been celibate 7 years and is not sexually active.

[JoshuasMommii]

Ask him

[Anonymous 1 - Original Poster]

bump

[owl0210]

Well four dates does not automatically mean you're in a committed relationship unless that has already been discussed.

[BeAmour]

Ask him what's up.

[edelweiss23]

This

Quoting owl0210:

Well four dates does not automatically mean you're in a committed relationship unless that has already been discussed.

[Two_Hearts]

well it depends..
if i were sleeping with him...i would ask if he was sleeping with anyone else.

if i haven't slept with him..i would probably excuse myself and go.

if a man is really interested in you..he would only want to sleep with you

[SommelierMom]

If this is only the 4th date, why would you believe he's not sexually involved with anyone else?

[Anonymous 2]

ask him about it. Then leave. I would listen to what he had to say and leave. He might be expecting some and who knows if the sheets were washed yet. I'd leave and never look back.

[Anonymous 3]

Quoting Two_Hearts:

well it depends..
if i were sleeping with him...i would ask if he was sleeping with anyone else.

if i haven't slept with him..i would probably excuse myself and go.

if a man is really interested in you..he would only want to sleep with you

It's only the fourth date.

[LAXmom21]

I would not assume he wasn't dating anyone else unless he said so.