First date- What would you do in this situation?

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You've had a great 4th date with a handsome guy. As far as you know, he is only dating you and not being intimate with anyone else. For this date, you decided to have dinner at his house. This man/woman lives alone and you're 100% sure he doesn't have any room mates. In the middle of the date, you excuse yourself to use the bathroom. While using the bathroom you notice a used condom in the garbage pail and it's evidently fresh. Dinner has not yet been served. What do you do?
ETA: He has claimed since meeting, that he has been celibate 7 years and is not sexually active.

Well four dates does not automatically mean you're in a committed relationship unless that has already been discussed.

Quoting owl0210:Well four dates does not automatically mean you're in a committed relationship unless that has already been discussed.

if i were sleeping with him...i would ask if he was sleeping with anyone else.
if i haven't slept with him..i would probably excuse myself and go.
if a man is really interested in you..he would only want to sleep with you


Quoting Two_Hearts:
well it depends..
if i were sleeping with him...i would ask if he was sleeping with anyone else.
if i haven't slept with him..i would probably excuse myself and go.
if a man is really interested in you..he would only want to sleep with you
It's only the fourth date.
