I don't see how I am the one in the wrong! (kinda long)
I started dating this man about 7 months ago. My son is in an in home daycare with one of my best friends. She told me that he told her that J (boyfriend) had touched him in the no no spot. I know that it's not true because he has never even been alone with M (my son). He has never even picked him up or anything. My son is 5. I asked M about it and he says that he never said that. I told J that I couldn't be with him anymore though because he is a registered sex offender. ( It's from when he was 19 and his girlfriend was 16. She got pregnant and her parents pressed charges. I seen the papers and everything so I know that is what happened plus I have talked to her too about it) Anyways, he is mad at me now because I broke up with him because I don't want to continue to keep having problems like this when someone finds out. What had happened is that I had told my so called best friend about it and she didn't like that he is a registered sex offender so she made up the lie about it. But she also said that if I got back with him then she would file a report with the police about it and then the police would have to investigate all of it and everyone in it which would mean putting my son through unnecessary crap which I refuse to do. But now J is pissed about it (which is understandable) and thinks that we should stay together and let her go to the police. I absolutely refuse to put my son through that just so that we can be happy together but J won't stop bothering me about it and won't stop calling, texting, or coming by. I know this is kind of long but if anyone has any advice on this then it would be greatly appreciated.