My husband got a vasectomy without me wanting it. I told him I wanted to wait two years and if he still didn't want anymore then we would consider it. He ended up getting it before he left the army in october because he said he won't change his mind. We have two boys, 5 and 13 months. I want another child.
My confession... I flirt with every good looking man I meet while nursing a fantasy about having sex with one of them to get me pregnant.
I won't do it because my husband would leave me and I love him. But I feel guilty thinking this way