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Day 3 and he hasn't called me

Anonymous
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We've been dating a year. He tells me last night he doesn't like to talk on the phone.

WTH- really?

He texts me a but during the day, but no phone calls.

This isn't like him..?

I just know he has changed his mind about me.. Again. I'm tired of the dang mind games.

Not sure if I Should just break it off..

Talking to him about my feelings doesn't work bc he says I just nag him

But really, three days of no talking to the woman you care about? That's just odd to me..

Should I confront him? Ask him what's up? Let him be? Or break it off?

I have never done that to a person I cared about.. Never..
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 19, 2013 at 9:18 PM
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beachbabies6
by on Feb. 19, 2013 at 9:20 PM

Ask what's up 

NewMamaBoo
by Platinum Member on Feb. 19, 2013 at 9:20 PM
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Don't wait up for him to call. He doesn't seem to interested. 

MommySwiggles
by Gold Member on Feb. 19, 2013 at 9:20 PM
I dated someone once who played mind games like that. After the 3rd time of "I don't know what I want", I did. He tried getting back with me a few months later and I said NO WAY.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 19, 2013 at 9:21 PM
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A year is not very long. Ask him what's up, and if it's not going anywhere, break it off. It's not worth the hassle, it'll only get worse in the future.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 19, 2013 at 9:21 PM
I hate talkin on the phone and prefer to text also!!! My so stayed at his place this last week and I honestly didn't talk to him for a couple days!!! He text all freaked out. But honestly I just got busy!!! Have you tried texting him and no response?
kris0921
by on Feb. 19, 2013 at 9:21 PM
Move on.
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ElitestJen
by on Feb. 19, 2013 at 9:22 PM
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He's just not that in to you.

IandLoveandYou
by Penny Lane on Feb. 19, 2013 at 9:22 PM

Break.

Up.

With.

Him.


How old are you?

kmorales7690
by Ruby Member on Feb. 19, 2013 at 9:22 PM
Girl he is just a boyfriend just let him off the hook and move on. Don't be "that girl".
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Mrs.Winchester
by on Feb. 19, 2013 at 9:22 PM

It does seem like mind games to me.  I would just tell him that you don't play games and to cut the shit and pick up the phone.

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