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Why are BM's jealous?

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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I know some of you are not, that you're glad your ex has moved on, and others who have no idea where their ex is.

But for the BM who is jealous... Why?
Or were you ever the SM/girlfriend that dealt with a jealous BM?
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 20, 2013 at 11:52 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 20, 2013 at 5:49 PM
Bump!!!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 20, 2013 at 5:50 PM
I don't know any BM. All my friends are married or single.
GELiz
by on Feb. 20, 2013 at 5:50 PM
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I think anyone who wanted to be loved by someone and that someone has moved on to love someone else will be jealous.

MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Feb. 20, 2013 at 5:50 PM
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 No clue. My exdh is not remarried but has had the same gf for 5 years now. Even though I have never met her she has been a great influence on him and my kids talk very highly of her. I hope they do get married actually.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 20, 2013 at 5:51 PM
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Kind like why is step mom jealous?
Some are not but some are insane and have their heads stuffed up their ass
Dzyre1115
by Desiree` on Feb. 20, 2013 at 5:53 PM

 My Mother was never jealous of my step-mothers, but then again my father was very clear from the get go that my Mother was in charge of ALL decisions when it came to us kids.  There was only issues when one of the step-mothers crossed the boundaries my Father had set.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 20, 2013 at 7:11 PM
I'm just trying to get a better understanding if why BM acts as she does toward me.

Quoting Anonymous:

Kind like why is step mom jealous?

Some are not but some are insane and have their heads stuffed up their ass
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 20, 2013 at 7:11 PM
That's nice of you :-)

Quoting MrsDavidB25:

 No clue. My exdh is not remarried but has had the same gf for 5 years now. Even though I have never met her she has been a great influence on him and my kids talk very highly of her. I hope they do get married actually.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 20, 2013 at 7:14 PM
That's understandable. I'm just trying to understand the bm in my situation. I am a mom myself so I will never want to step on her toes sort of speak and won't disrespect her. I'm not sure why she is indifferent to me. I'm good to her children...

Quoting Dzyre1115:

 My Mother was never jealous of my step-mothers, but then again my father was very clear from the get go that my Mother was in charge of ALL decisions when it came to us kids.  There was only issues when one of the step-mothers crossed the boundaries my Father had set.

hunnybunny2001
by on Feb. 20, 2013 at 7:23 PM
Is she with someone else? Maybe she's just a hateful person? If so then there's nothing you can do but wait for her to grow up some..
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