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Would you allow your teen to attend a sweet 16 party with strippers for entertainment?

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Mom Hires Strippers for Son's Sweet 16 Birthday Party

Posted by Kiri Blakeley on February 20, 2013 

Your son's Sweet 16 birthday party is a special occasion and a lot of thought and planning goes into it. The guests, the decor, the lighting and music. Oh, and the strippers. They should be sexy but tasteful, amiright? Ohhh waaaaait. There probably shouldn't be strippers at a Sweet 16 party. It's "sweet" not "suh-wheet!" But this didn't stop one mom from making sure her son's birthday bash was the raunchiest one on the block. For reportedly Judy Viger hired a group of strippers to entertain her son's birthday party guests -- some of whom happened to be as young 13.

Viger, 33, has been arrested for endangering the welfare of a child and faces up to a year in prison after reportedly hiring strippers from a place called Tops in Bottoms to perform at her son's birthday party in a bowling alley.

After photos of the party ended up online -- because, after all, what is the use of hiring strippers for your teen's birthday if you can't share them with the world -- the mother of a 15-year-old guest called the police. Sheesh, some moms are soooo sanctimommious.

Listen, mom. Your kid will be at the strip joint soon enough. Why rush him? And, you know, not every woman is cool with strippers giving their kids lap dances. Should have checked with the other moms. Maybe they could have suggested a Star Wars or gaming party theme instead. Even if your kid asked for strippers, it's okay to SAY. NO. Doesn't make you a bad mom. Strippers on the other hand ...

Seriously gotta wonder what this mom was thinking. My guess is, she doesn't do a lot of that.

Would you allow your teen to attend this party?

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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 21, 2013 at 4:15 PM

Just because you are "safe" doesn't mean you can't get pregnant. There are BC babies out there and Broken Condom babies.

Quoting Anonymous:

Being ok with sex doesn't mean I'm ok with unsafe sex.

I will grow my kids up with the education of safe sex, and the access to condoms and birth control.

Quoting Anonymous:

Okay. I had MORALS which you still don't hope your kid doesn't come home pregnant because that is apparently what you stand for. 

Quoting Anonymous:

Shy does = lame.. and nope sorry, never had an STD.



Quoting Anonymous:

No I was shy. Plus I had no self esteem but thank you Miss Horrible ANON that Probably Has an STD. Thank you for being the tacky person you are.

Quoting Anonymous:

Lol... first kiss at 17?! You sound pretty lame and ugly.





Quoting Anonymous:

Are You kidding me? I didn't even have my first kiss till i was 17 NO way in HELL would I allow my 16 year old boy have strippers. Now if he wants to read "playboy" for the ariticles then I'm not going to ban them from my house but i will not buy them. 




Tooth_Inspector
by Gold Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 4:17 PM
Wow, nice thinkin there lady! No, I would not allow my daughters at a bash for teenagers with strippers.
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Hectictracy
by on Feb. 21, 2013 at 4:22 PM
Ummmm, hell no!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 21, 2013 at 9:09 PM
Their sure are. I would be happy just to know my children did the best to protect themselves, and if they ended up teen parents, I would be behind them 100% with whatever they chose.

Quoting Anonymous:

Just because you are "safe" doesn't mean you can't get pregnant. There are BC babies out there and Broken Condom babies.

Quoting Anonymous:

Being ok with sex doesn't mean I'm ok with unsafe sex.



I will grow my kids up with the education of safe sex, and the access to condoms and birth control.



Quoting Anonymous:

Okay. I had MORALS which you still don't hope your kid doesn't come home pregnant because that is apparently what you stand for. 

Quoting Anonymous:

Shy does = lame.. and nope sorry, never had an STD.





Quoting Anonymous:

No I was shy. Plus I had no self esteem but thank you Miss Horrible ANON that Probably Has an STD. Thank you for being the tacky person you are.

Quoting Anonymous:

Lol... first kiss at 17?! You sound pretty lame and ugly.







Quoting Anonymous:

Are You kidding me? I didn't even have my first kiss till i was 17 NO way in HELL would I allow my 16 year old boy have strippers. Now if he wants to read "playboy" for the ariticles then I'm not going to ban them from my house but i will not buy them. 




Brielle1987
by New Member on May. 19, 2013 at 5:29 AM

Boys have already seen and slept with naked women by this age.  I'd have no problem letting my kids go to the party.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 19, 2013 at 5:31 AM
NO WAY!!!!!
briellesmomma
by Gold Member on May. 19, 2013 at 5:34 AM
So glad I have a girl.
briellesmomma
by Gold Member on May. 19, 2013 at 5:35 AM
1 mom liked this
Thats my daughters name :) Brielle

Quoting Brielle1987:

Boys have already seen and slept with naked women by this age.  I'd have no problem letting my kids go to the party.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 19, 2013 at 5:36 AM

Son yes Daughter no

TonyaH1985
by Member on May. 19, 2013 at 5:53 AM
NO!
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