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Would you allow your teen to attend a sweet 16 party with strippers for entertainment?

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Mom Hires Strippers for Son's Sweet 16 Birthday Party

Posted by Kiri Blakeley on February 20, 2013 

Your son's Sweet 16 birthday party is a special occasion and a lot of thought and planning goes into it. The guests, the decor, the lighting and music. Oh, and the strippers. They should be sexy but tasteful, amiright? Ohhh waaaaait. There probably shouldn't be strippers at a Sweet 16 party. It's "sweet" not "suh-wheet!" But this didn't stop one mom from making sure her son's birthday bash was the raunchiest one on the block. For reportedly Judy Viger hired a group of strippers to entertain her son's birthday party guests -- some of whom happened to be as young 13.

Viger, 33, has been arrested for endangering the welfare of a child and faces up to a year in prison after reportedly hiring strippers from a place called Tops in Bottoms to perform at her son's birthday party in a bowling alley.

After photos of the party ended up online -- because, after all, what is the use of hiring strippers for your teen's birthday if you can't share them with the world -- the mother of a 15-year-old guest called the police. Sheesh, some moms are soooo sanctimommious.

Listen, mom. Your kid will be at the strip joint soon enough. Why rush him? And, you know, not every woman is cool with strippers giving their kids lap dances. Should have checked with the other moms. Maybe they could have suggested a Star Wars or gaming party theme instead. Even if your kid asked for strippers, it's okay to SAY. NO. Doesn't make you a bad mom. Strippers on the other hand ...

Seriously gotta wonder what this mom was thinking. My guess is, she doesn't do a lot of that.

Would you allow your teen to attend this party?

by on Feb. 20, 2013 at 2:03 PM
Replies (41-50):
robyann
by on Feb. 20, 2013 at 2:18 PM

NO WAY!! And I would be pi**ed if I found out this had gone on a party my kid went to!! 

What kind of a mom does that? Makes ya wonder what else she's gotten for her son, like maybe a hooker! 

Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Feb. 20, 2013 at 2:18 PM

Hell NO

NiCo86
by on Feb. 20, 2013 at 2:18 PM

 I would be livid!!! I would have called the cops as well.

marinenonstop
by on Feb. 20, 2013 at 2:18 PM
Im not naive or pretend to think that there would be no possible way my sons will not see a naked woman by age16. I know that they will via web or movies..or heck maybe in real life they will see it. However.... i would NEVER hire naked women to grind and dance on my child's lap..not at 16...not at 56. Nor would i ever allow my child to go to a party where there would be strippers. I will never condone objectifying women. When they're old enough to go to a strip club..fine that's their business. The hell is wrong with this woman?!?
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jessi2girls
by Ruby Member on Feb. 20, 2013 at 2:19 PM

I have girls, so I doubt they'd want strippers at their bday parties at 16! lol. (if I had a son, the answer would still be no though, lol). 

BUT.. I remember growing up, my mom's friend had a son, who was turning 16. She hired a couple of hooters girls for the party. Not strippers, but not much better, lol.   She did make sure that any of his friends that were coming, had to have their parents present, or she had to at least have their permission for it.   Yes, there were younger kids there.. I was 10, and was there, my brother 9.. bday boys brothers were 10 and 12. 

Definitely was weird.


mary841108
by on Feb. 20, 2013 at 2:20 PM

 hell freaking no! absolutely not! what the hell is wrong with people?

mom23heathens
by Silver Member on Feb. 20, 2013 at 2:20 PM

 Hell to the capital NO! I wouldn't let my 16 yr old go to a party at a bar. Her friends''s mom thought it would be cool to have a party for teens at a bar because they had karaoke. What's wrong with buying a karaoke machine for $40 and have it in the back yard? It got cancelled. I wonder why?

ColtsFan1912
by FriendoftheFoot on Feb. 20, 2013 at 2:20 PM

No way.

lnrmom
by Ruby Member on Feb. 20, 2013 at 2:20 PM

Whose son has a Sweet 16 party? I thought that was for girls....

SparklingHope
by Bronze Member on Feb. 20, 2013 at 2:22 PM

I don't think so! That's crazy, why did she think that was okay?!?

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