with being a full-time manual labor employee while simultaneously being the only one to take care of our child and house. The only time I get help with such things is if I specifically ask for help with something. I never get an offer. I need to stop one of these things because it's like working three full-time jobs of equal physical strain. I'm about ready to just quit my job and be a SAHM, but we'd need FS until my SO makes enough to pay the bills, cover insurance, and feed our unique diets.
Before anyone starts telling me to suck it up. I'm a material handler. That's my job title. I spend 40 hours a week moving around crates, boxes, cases, large fabrication tool pieces, and industrial pumps. We have a forklift, but it's not always possible to use it. Some of the smallest boxes can weigh over 80lbs. It's doesn't sound like much until it's condensed into a 2x3x2 box. Add in going home to clean up after a puppy and cat, cook, and do laundry for a potty training toddler. Now on top of that I do nearly all of the feeding, entertaining, and disciplining for my son when he's not in daycare.