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am i wrong?

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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my ds has his friend over that is a girl. i will not let them play in his room where i can not see them. the last time there were both on his top bunk together and i find it inappropriate.  they are 8 years old. i dont mind them playing outside or in the playroom where i can see them. my ds is not happy with me.

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 20, 2013 at 4:36 PM
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crescentstar2
by Anne on Feb. 20, 2013 at 4:37 PM

I don't see the harm in playing in a room with the door open. Do you honestly think it would turn sexual at 8? 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 20, 2013 at 4:39 PM

 my ds was molested when he was younger by his grandfather. it always has me worried.

Quoting crescentstar2:

I don't see the harm in playing in a room with the door open. Do you honestly think it would turn sexual at 8? 

 

peanutsmommy1
by Ruby Member on Feb. 20, 2013 at 4:40 PM
Do you think he is going to be molested by an 8 year old friend?

Quoting Anonymous:

 my ds was molested when he was younger by his grandfather. it always has me worried.


Quoting crescentstar2:


I don't see the harm in playing in a room with the door open. Do you honestly think it would turn sexual at 8? 


 

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jenmomx3
by Silver Member on Feb. 20, 2013 at 4:41 PM
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 You are absolutely right for that.  They can play in the living room or outside. No need to be in the bedroom.

crescentstar2
by Anne on Feb. 20, 2013 at 4:41 PM

has he ever shown signs of acting out sexually? 

Quoting Anonymous:

 my ds was molested when he was younger by his grandfather. it always has me worried.

Quoting crescentstar2:

I don't see the harm in playing in a room with the door open. Do you honestly think it would turn sexual at 8? 




AthenaGrace
by on Feb. 20, 2013 at 4:41 PM

You are not wrong at all. Dh and I both had sexual experiences that young and most of the kids I knew did as well. It's never too early to supervise that. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 20, 2013 at 4:42 PM

i think you thinking something innappropriate will happen is innappropriate. 

aprilsalcro
by Platinum Member on Feb. 20, 2013 at 4:42 PM
Oh dear.....
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 20, 2013 at 4:42 PM

What the heck were they doing in the bed? Just curious.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 20, 2013 at 4:43 PM
He could act out on this poor girl.


Quoting peanutsmommy1:

Do you think he is going to be molested by an 8 year old friend?



Quoting Anonymous:

 my ds was molested when he was younger by his grandfather. it always has me worried.



Quoting crescentstar2:



I don't see the harm in playing in a room with the door open. Do you honestly think it would turn sexual at 8? 



 


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