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Section8 and hud housing

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

We are trying to get section 8. We had the interview yesterday. We were told what we needed for the adults and the kids who will be living in the home. Ok I dont have a CO for either of my kids. He said we needed to get one for both kids. Then said my dd school records would also wok but my ds is 3 and not in school so we wont get the decution for him. I need to find out if we are being jercked around because my ds has no father listed on his bc but I still have to get a CO for him to prove I have legal custody of him. Who else would have it? If his father was awarded custody he would be listed on the bc right. What is my next step? I also cant afford court right now.

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 20, 2013 at 8:30 PM
Replies (21-30):
Grumpylilpixy
by on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:33 AM

And if a rape was the case. You have a child from it. Press charges. ( But you didn't) Get the rapist DNA. By the child and press charges. 

Please. To much technology. 

And if it was a rape, you think you were his first.

Please, you have the best evidence in a rape case.

So don't blow that shit up my ass.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:35 AM
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If this was me I would be worried about my rapist getting parenteral rights.


Quoting Grumpylilpixy:

And if a rape was the case. You have a child from it. Press charges. ( But you didn't) Get the rapist DNA. By the child and press charges. 

Please. To much technology. 

And if it was a rape, you think you were his first.

Please, you have the best evidence in a rape case.

So don't blow that shit up my ass.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:36 AM

I'm in PA and moved into hud housing when my kids were 1 1/2.  Their father is not on the BC and doesn't pay CS and I was never asked for records or a CO  

BelleVernonGirl
by Gold Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:38 AM


Some ppl know EVERYTHING....

Quoting Anonymous:

If this was me I would be worried about my rapist getting parenteral rights.


Quoting Grumpylilpixy:

And if a rape was the case. You have a child from it. Press charges. ( But you didn't) Get the rapist DNA. By the child and press charges. 

Please. To much technology. 

And if it was a rape, you think you were his first.

Please, you have the best evidence in a rape case.

So don't blow that shit up my ass.





Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:39 AM
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Look here trash. I have been with ONE man willingly and unlike you chose correctly. Idgaf if your ignorant ass believes me. I know what happened. As well as the da, who still calls me from time to time if he thinks they have a lead.

I was there. I am the one that had to have surgery to repair my vagina. I am the one who was beaten within an inch of my life.

I fucking hate bitches like you. You have no class, education, and I can guarantee that you are a shitty mother who is actively fucking your kids up.

Why don't you go and find something in your pitiful and sad life to do. Being a cm bully isn't becoming.

Quoting Grumpylilpixy:

Oh yes, now it was a rape.. BS.  I am not buying that. You are just trying to cover up the fact that you are a straight up ho. I hope you learned something, LIKE. Don't sleep around. Again you are full of BS. 

Quoting Anonymous:

I was raped. By a man I didn't know and didn't get a good description of.



But thank you for proving my point you ignorant judgemental trash.



Talk about classless, how about you stop making assumptions about someone.



Quoting Grumpylilpixy:

At least I know who fathered my children for 1. And for 2. You understood it. So I guess that is all that is needed. 

Remember. I am not crying for section 8. Nor did I just spread my legs and make a baby with a man that I don't know his name.

Talk about class less. 

Quoting Anonymous:

I don't put who fathered my child down. I don't know who he is. You are an asshole. You can't type or spell correctly but always give someone bitchy judgemental crap.





Get a life.





Quoting Grumpylilpixy:

Ah but that is how it is set up. And I don't get no money from my ex husband for my 2 sons but when something says list him. HE GETS LISTED. It doesn't matter if he can't pay. What matters is he is listed and they can go after him.

She is crying how the system is set up. DON'T LIKE IT, STAY OFF OF IT.

The sense of entitlement as " AS IF, WHO ARE THEY TO ASK WHO FATHERED THIS BABY. THE TAX PAYERS SHOULD JUST PAY!

Bottom line, before you make a baby with someone at least know their NAME!

And just because she is the only one the BC doesn't give her custody.

Do you honestly think she is the first bitch who went in , gave birth and refused to put her one nighter down on a certificate?

Not a chance.

Quoting ambitious_MOM:

Aaahhh bc you can't get blood from a rock and if her bf doesn't have an income she can't get cs so maybe she needs little help till she gets on her feet......damn back off she asked for advice not to be lectured judged and belittled by a nobody your not God so how dare you judge her and her situation......smh sheesh











Quoting Grumpylilpixy:

Ummm, Why should the tax payers of America be responsibile to pay a mom (you) and your child when it took 2 people to concieve that child. And why are you the only one on the birth certificate and where is the father? He is more responsibile to be paying for this child then the tax payers. They didn't create a child and not pay for the child.

And why are you not going after the father for child support and if you don't know who the father is. Then you need to start doing DNA test.

The message this state is sending to people that are on the system is this.

If you are going to have babies and don't know who the father is who you made them with. Then that becomes a personal problem that you need to support all on your own. I have to agree with that.

Here in NM you can't get Cash assistance or Food stamps unless you put down who the father of the absent father is. If you don't know then they will start doing DNA for the men who you listed you slept with.

Quoting Anonymous:

It really is. I know for daycare assistance the father has to be paying cs and they will not give it to you if you dont provide them with a name and get a dna test. but I dont get why if Im the only parent listed on the bc why do I have to prove I have custody?






Quoting Grumpylilpixy:

I don't have any idea about section 8 or hud. But it sounds like a big mess.















Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:39 AM

I think HUD and Section8 are different so there are a few different rules. Like FS and WIC both are for food but work differently


Quoting Anonymous:

I'm in PA and moved into hud housing when my kids were 1 1/2.  Their father is not on the BC and doesn't pay CS and I was never asked for records or a CO  



Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:40 AM

I didn't know there was a difference.  It's an apartment complex not a house if that matters.


Quoting Anonymous:

I think HUD and Section8 are different so there are a few different rules. Like FS and WIC both are for food but work differently


Quoting Anonymous:

I'm in PA and moved into hud housing when my kids were 1 1/2.  Their father is not on the BC and doesn't pay CS and I was never asked for records or a CO  





Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:41 AM

What do you mean? Im not in this sitiution. I wasnt raped but it has been known to happen was all I was saying.


Quoting BelleVernonGirl:


Some ppl know EVERYTHING....

Quoting Anonymous:

If this was me I would be worried about my rapist getting parenteral rights.


Quoting Grumpylilpixy:

And if a rape was the case. You have a child from it. Press charges. ( But you didn't) Get the rapist DNA. By the child and press charges. 

Please. To much technology. 

And if it was a rape, you think you were his first.

Please, you have the best evidence in a rape case.

So don't blow that shit up my ass.







Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:42 AM
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I have profound memory loss. I can't clearly remember what he looks like. He used a condom. You are still trash and you fucking know it. That is exactly why you come on this site to put others down. It makes you feel better. Why I don't know. I was a god damned virgin. I didn't ask for it. I was only fucking 14. I hate you. And I don't even know you.

There you feel better now?

Quoting Grumpylilpixy:

And if a rape was the case. You have a child from it. Press charges. ( But you didn't) Get the rapist DNA. By the child and press charges. 

Please. To much technology. 

And if it was a rape, you think you were his first.

Please, you have the best evidence in a rape case.

So don't blow that shit up my ass.

BelleVernonGirl
by Gold Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:43 AM

I was talking about the one you were replying to...she obviously knows everything about everyone's lives...


Quoting Anonymous:

What do you mean? Im not in this sitiution. I wasnt raped but it has been known to happen was all I was saying.


Quoting BelleVernonGirl:


Some ppl know EVERYTHING....

Quoting Anonymous:

If this was me I would be worried about my rapist getting parenteral rights.


Quoting Grumpylilpixy:

And if a rape was the case. You have a child from it. Press charges. ( But you didn't) Get the rapist DNA. By the child and press charges. 

Please. To much technology. 

And if it was a rape, you think you were his first.

Please, you have the best evidence in a rape case.

So don't blow that shit up my ass.









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