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Would you ALLOW your man to go to..a bachelor party/sleepover with STRIPPERS included..

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Would you allow him to go to a bachelor party which will be at house with strippers included ?

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 20, 2013 at 11:12 PM
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spizzarks1978
by on Feb. 21, 2013 at 10:53 AM

What she said...... and I'll add that strippers that do home parties take body guards with them for their own protection.  No sex included!  And they most likely do numerous parties in one night so it's not like they will be sleeping over too.  They come, dance, do a few lap dances and leave.  Do you really think just because she is a stripper that she is also a whore?  Plus they will focus on the bachelor not your already married husband  


Quoting LoveTragedyFun:

Allow?! Lmao, really? Who am I? His wife or mother?

He is an adult and can do as he pleases. He knows how to be respectful. And contrary to popular belief, the majority of strippers don't sleep with clientele.


 

Lizard_Lina
by Platinum Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 10:56 AM
Lol my hubs used to tell me stories about the misbehavior of the men but hardly ever the strippers themselves. I think as long as your man is trustworthy and and practices good conduct you seriously have nothing to worry about.


Quoting lnrmom:

Absolutely. When we go to strip clubs now we're like celebrities. LOL We know at least half the girls there and get ginormous hugs. LMAO. When I go to regular clubs and run into my old customers they buy me and my friends rounds, if they recognize me (I cut my hair). Don't let one of my old girls see us out and them not see me with him, he gets an ear full. I even had one run to catch up to me at WM. LOL They are just people, doing a job. They are not trying to fuck. smh




Quoting Lizard_Lina:

So you're on the same page then :-)



Quoting lnrmom:


 LOL I bartended/managed one for five years. SO was a bouncer there. :)



 



Quoting Lizard_Lina:

Lmfao my hubs used to bounce at strip clubs. Some of his friends, and mine, are strippers. I know this is going to shock a lot of women, but most strippers are not there to hop on your man, they're there to provide a good time and get paid a nice chunk of cash so they can go home and support their regular lives just like the rest of us.
I trust my man, he wants to go see some titties he's more than welcome.


 



 





 


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lovemysnugbugs
by Gold Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 10:56 AM
Yup. I might not be crazy about the sleepover part, but that would be better than drinking and driving.
I stayed out all night with friends (gone away for a weekend, even) a few times during our marriage and my husband has trusted me to be faithful. I trust him to do the same
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 54 on Feb. 21, 2013 at 11:01 AM

LOL it always cracks me up how crazy the women on cafemom get about the word "allow".

No, my DH would not be ALLOWED to go, but he would not want to go either. He would rather be home playing WoW with me.

lnrmom
by Ruby Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 11:07 AM

We have a bartending school here, I was tired of corporate America so I quit my job and went. It was a two week course. I then heard this particular club was looking for a bartender, which was awesome because all the bars I was applying at were looking for 21 year olds (I was 31) LOL. I went in, filled out an application, and started that night. Only reason I stopped was because I was in a car wreck that jacked my back and I can't handle that type of work anymore.


Quoting lilbit53009:

that sounds like a fun job! how'd you get into it?

Quoting lnrmom:

 LOL I bartended/managed one for five years. SO was a bouncer there. :)

 

Quoting Lizard_Lina:

Lmfao my hubs used to bounce at strip clubs. Some of his friends, and mine, are strippers. I know this is going to shock a lot of women, but most strippers are not there to hop on your man, they're there to provide a good time and get paid a nice chunk of cash so they can go home and support their regular lives just like the rest of us.
I trust my man, he wants to go see some titties he's more than welcome.

 

 



 

Pnukey
by Jenn on Feb. 21, 2013 at 11:09 AM

He makes his own decisions. He knows I wouldn't like it. His choices would be stripper party or seriously pissed off wife. He generally chooses wisely. He's a smart man.

Crashly
by Ashley on Feb. 21, 2013 at 11:10 AM
Not if the strippers were staying the night. Otherwise yes.
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lnrmom
by Ruby Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 11:10 AM

When I first started there I had zero respect for dancers because of all the nonsense I had heard. I had dated a male dancer for awhile, but *shrug* the girls... well they were just whores (come to find out he was a whore, but whatever). LOL. Until I worked there. Now, a new found respect. They work very hard and have to deal with some complete pigs. Some of the guys really believe those girls want to fuck, and can get handsy. I've had to keep more than one girl inside until someone left than was necessary. Hell, there were a couple times I had to stay inside until someone left. I even had a stalker at one point.


Quoting Lizard_Lina:

Lol my hubs used to tell me stories about the misbehavior of the men but hardly ever the strippers themselves. I think as long as your man is trustworthy and and practices good conduct you seriously have nothing to worry about.


Quoting lnrmom:

Absolutely. When we go to strip clubs now we're like celebrities. LOL We know at least half the girls there and get ginormous hugs. LMAO. When I go to regular clubs and run into my old customers they buy me and my friends rounds, if they recognize me (I cut my hair). Don't let one of my old girls see us out and them not see me with him, he gets an ear full. I even had one run to catch up to me at WM. LOL They are just people, doing a job. They are not trying to fuck. smh


 


Quoting Lizard_Lina:

So you're on the same page then :-)



Quoting lnrmom:


 LOL I bartended/managed one for five years. SO was a bouncer there. :)



 



Quoting Lizard_Lina:

Lmfao my hubs used to bounce at strip clubs. Some of his friends, and mine, are strippers. I know this is going to shock a lot of women, but most strippers are not there to hop on your man, they're there to provide a good time and get paid a nice chunk of cash so they can go home and support their regular lives just like the rest of us.
I trust my man, he wants to go see some titties he's more than welcome.


 



 



 


 



 

Matriarch87
by Ruby Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 11:11 AM
Yes I would approve such an activity.
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robibuni
by Platinum Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 11:11 AM
Yeah I don't care if he goes to a strip club. And I don't "allow" him to do anything.
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