I'm pretty sure my husband hates me. But the issue is I don't know why. Recently a lot of things have changed for us. I went back to work after being a sahm for years, because he lost his job. We moved to a better house with less rent, but with roommates. And now he's taken on the role of sahd. Now I've only had my job for a few weeks, but I make fairly good money. I don't do much honestly. I just run the office at a temporary construction site. Thankfully the company I work for is great about ot, so I get a lot of it. And well I'm making more than my dh did at his hard labor job. Now suddenly everything I hear from him went from get a job, to you don't do shit at your job. Blah blah blah. Wtf. He gets mad that I work so much, then gets mad I don't work enough. He complains our DS is a pain in the ass, yet talked shit to me before when I sah and said ANYTHING about DS being a handful. I just can't win here. Not a damn thing I do is right. Yeah I get he's probably depressed. But really I'm sick of the put Downs. I'm tired of being told I'm a one way asshole, as an answer for everything. I just don't know wth to do here! How can I fix this? Or should I even try?