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My SO and I just broke up. ** it hit me that I will be homeless**

Anonymous
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Tonight my SO of 7 years and I broke up.





I do not really know what I am going to do. We have two boys, ages 4 & 2. I am a graduate student, and do not work. I have financial aid to live off ... But last month I deposited it in the account. I do not have access to it. My two credit cards are maxed (only $500 limits). He supports us, but now I will be on my own. It has not really sunk in yet.





I am sitting here in a daze. I am lost. I am just starring at my two boys, and how this weekend there life is going to change.





Did I mention Sunday is my birthday!?





This is going to be the worst birthday ever.



Edit.

I have no one or nothing. I have no family. No friends. I will need to leave this place Sunday (my birthday) and as of now I have no idea where I will be going. He is leaving town tomorrow, and I have to be gone when he gets back. With me being homeless, I know he will get the boys.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:08 AM
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dawnnamarie
by Ruby Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:09 AM
Keep your chin up momma! It'll get better for you
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dallascowboys82
by Platinum Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:10 AM
Why did you break up?
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jackieb2811
by Silver Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:10 AM
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Why did you break up? Are you sad about it or did you see it coming?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:11 AM
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I think the things he does outside our relationship is highly inappropriate. He doesn't care. I think he has lost all feelings for me.


Quoting dallascowboys82:

Why did you break up?

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:11 AM
Right now I am numb. Crying .... Lots on crying 'these tears won't stop.


Quoting jackieb2811:

Why did you break up? Are you sad about it or did you see it coming?

diegosmom828
by Silver Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:12 AM
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It will be hard at first but things will fall into place. Even though you broke up he still has to support his children.
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An0nym0use
by Rock Lobster on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:12 AM

What kind of "things"?


Quoting Anonymous:

I think the things he does outside our relationship is highly inappropriate. He doesn't care. I think he has lost all feelings for me.


Quoting dallascowboys82:

Why did you break up?



Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:13 AM
He calls it guy stuff. I call it too many women... It's a lot of things mixed into that same topic.


Quoting An0nym0use:

What kind of "things"?



Quoting Anonymous:

I think the things he does outside our relationship is highly inappropriate. He doesn't care. I think he has lost all feelings for me.





Quoting dallascowboys82:

Why did you break up?






Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:14 AM
I think he will try to take them from me. He will win full custody :(.

I am going to loose my boys.


Quoting diegosmom828:

It will be hard at first but things will fall into place. Even though you broke up he still has to support his children.

kaysha
by Ruby Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:14 AM
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First thing in the morning, go file for child support.
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