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My SO and I just broke up. ** it hit me that I will be homeless**

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
Tonight my SO of 7 years and I broke up.





I do not really know what I am going to do. We have two boys, ages 4 & 2. I am a graduate student, and do not work. I have financial aid to live off ... But last month I deposited it in the account. I do not have access to it. My two credit cards are maxed (only $500 limits). He supports us, but now I will be on my own. It has not really sunk in yet.





I am sitting here in a daze. I am lost. I am just starring at my two boys, and how this weekend there life is going to change.





Did I mention Sunday is my birthday!?





This is going to be the worst birthday ever.



Edit.

I have no one or nothing. I have no family. No friends. I will need to leave this place Sunday (my birthday) and as of now I have no idea where I will be going. He is leaving town tomorrow, and I have to be gone when he gets back. With me being homeless, I know he will get the boys.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:08 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:17 AM
I think he is going to fight over the boys.

In the end, even tho I will file if i can, and he makes a lot of money ... He may actually be able to pay close to nothing. His accounts are good with these things.


Quoting kaysha:

First thing in the morning, go file for child support.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:17 AM
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Then you're not numb.

Quoting Anonymous:

Right now I am numb. Crying .... Lots on crying 'these tears won't stop.


Quoting jackieb2811:

Why did you break up? Are you sad about it or did you see it coming?


diegosmom828
by Silver Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:18 AM
Well before he can try you need to go get custody of them and do whatever you have to do to move on. What state are you in??


Quoting Anonymous:

I think he will try to take them from me. He will win full custody :(.



I am going to loose my boys.




Quoting diegosmom828:

It will be hard at first but things will fall into place. Even though you broke up he still has to support his children.


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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:19 AM
Ohio.

I am going to call a friend of mine tomorrow, she studying family law ... And see what I can do. :/


Quoting diegosmom828:

Well before he can try you need to go get custody of them and do whatever you have to do to move on. What state are you in??




Quoting Anonymous:

I think he will try to take them from me. He will win full custody :(.





I am going to loose my boys.






Quoting diegosmom828:

It will be hard at first but things will fall into place. Even though you broke up he still has to support his children.



Kaybean
by Ruby Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:19 AM
Why do you think he will take custody of them?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:19 AM
I sit here and I feel like i do not even know where I am.


Quoting Anonymous:

Then you're not numb.

Quoting Anonymous:

Right now I am numb. Crying .... Lots on crying 'these tears won't stop.





Quoting jackieb2811:

Why did you break up? Are you sad about it or did you see it coming?




jackieb2811
by Silver Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:19 AM
go file for child support and job hunting. Courts will not take kids from their mother. Sorry he sounds like a lousy spouse anyhow if he was out all the time with other women! You need to pull yourself together and see you deserve better. It will get better.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:22 AM

Sorry, that really bites.  Do your best to spruce yourself up and focus on you.  That in itself often gets an ex-partners attention and if it doesn't, it's still beneficial for you.

Oddy_Knocky
by on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:23 AM
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Better go to the social services office first thing tomorrow. Take control.
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Mesha125
by Bronze Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:24 AM
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He won't get full custody unless you are an unfit parent. He can scare you and tell you that...but he won't
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