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My SO and I just broke up. ** it hit me that I will be homeless**

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
Tonight my SO of 7 years and I broke up.

I do not really know what I am going to do. We have two boys, ages 4 & 2. I am a graduate student, and do not work. I have financial aid to live off ... But last month I deposited it in the account. I do not have access to it. My two credit cards are maxed (only $500 limits). He supports us, but now I will be on my own. It has not really sunk in yet.

I am sitting here in a daze. I am lost. I am just starring at my two boys, and how this weekend there life is going to change.

Did I mention Sunday is my birthday!?

This is going to be the worst birthday ever.


I have no one or nothing. I have no family. No friends. I will need to leave this place Sunday (my birthday) and as of now I have no idea where I will be going. He is leaving town tomorrow, and I have to be gone when he gets back. With me being homeless, I know he will get the boys.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:08 AM
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by on Feb. 21, 2013 at 5:44 PM
File for CUSTODY and CHILD SUPPORT. Do NOT leave the kids in his care w/o filing custody.... he can take them and there is nothing cops will do until a court order.
All of the other women have given you excellent advice, please use it.
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by on Apr. 19, 2013 at 2:57 PM

What state do you live in?

by on Apr. 19, 2013 at 2:59 PM
And emergency assistance. He can't kick you out either.

Quoting kaysha:

First thing in the morning, go file for child support.

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