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My SO and I just broke up. ** it hit me that I will be homeless**

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
Tonight my SO of 7 years and I broke up.





I do not really know what I am going to do. We have two boys, ages 4 & 2. I am a graduate student, and do not work. I have financial aid to live off ... But last month I deposited it in the account. I do not have access to it. My two credit cards are maxed (only $500 limits). He supports us, but now I will be on my own. It has not really sunk in yet.





I am sitting here in a daze. I am lost. I am just starring at my two boys, and how this weekend there life is going to change.





Did I mention Sunday is my birthday!?





This is going to be the worst birthday ever.



Edit.

I have no one or nothing. I have no family. No friends. I will need to leave this place Sunday (my birthday) and as of now I have no idea where I will be going. He is leaving town tomorrow, and I have to be gone when he gets back. With me being homeless, I know he will get the boys.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:08 AM
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heartnhidin
by on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:27 AM
Hugs. You can do this. Let yourself cry tonight. In the morning get yourself together and research what you need to do for custody and support.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:29 AM
He will win full custody only if there is proof you are a bad mother... if your not I wouldn't worry about it... cheer up your kids always sense what that there's something wrong! Good luck and I always say let Go and let God... let go of your worries and let god sort them out they usually fall into place!


Quoting Anonymous:

I think he will try to take them from me. He will win full custody :(.



I am going to loose my boys.




Quoting diegosmom828:

It will be hard at first but things will fall into place. Even though you broke up he still has to support his children.


SoltaniMommy
by on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:31 AM

You need a good cry, just don't stay there too long.  You've got a lot to do.  And the sooner the better.  Where will you begin? 

Family?

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:32 AM

Your SO is a fucking douche.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:38 AM
He can provide. I can't. As of Sunday (my bday) I will be homeles.


Quoting Mesha125:

He won't get full custody unless you are an unfit parent. He can scare you and tell you that...but he won't

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:39 AM
I have no one. Literally. I will be homeless. I do not even have a place to sleep when I leave here Sunday.


Quoting SoltaniMommy:

You need a good cry, just don't stay there too long.  You've got a lot to do.  And the sooner the better.  Where will you begin? 

Family?


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:40 AM
I have no where to go. I will be homeless...


Quoting Anonymous:

He will win full custody only if there is proof you are a bad mother... if your not I wouldn't worry about it... cheer up your kids always sense what that there's something wrong! Good luck and I always say let Go and let God... let go of your worries and let god sort them out they usually fall into place!




Quoting Anonymous:

I think he will try to take them from me. He will win full custody :(.





I am going to loose my boys.






Quoting diegosmom828:

It will be hard at first but things will fall into place. Even though you broke up he still has to support his children.



SoltaniMommy
by on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:43 AM

How come you will have to leave?  Are you not on the lease?

Quoting Anonymous:

I have no one. Literally. I will be homeless. I do not even have a place to sleep when I leave here Sunday.


Quoting SoltaniMommy:

You need a good cry, just don't stay there too long.  You've got a lot to do.  And the sooner the better.  Where will you begin? 

Family?




Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:44 AM
No. I am not.


Quoting SoltaniMommy:

How come you will have to leave?  Are you not on the lease?


Quoting Anonymous:

I have no one. Literally. I will be homeless. I do not even have a place to sleep when I leave here Sunday.





Quoting SoltaniMommy:

You need a good cry, just don't stay there too long.  You've got a lot to do.  And the sooner the better.  Where will you begin? 

Family?







SoltaniMommy
by on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:45 AM

Okay, step 1) Find a place to live.  Where are you?  Might there be a women's shelter or crisis center where you are?

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