I know the title sounds like a poor me lol sorry for that
but here it is my "confession". There is not a single person in my husbands life that likes me. Nobody in his family, not 1 friend or co-worker.
His adult daughter hates me, his brother and sister in law hate me. His mother, his step father, his dad and his step- mom all hate me.
None of his friends like me and not 1 co-worker likes me either. Half the time I am getting dirty looks the other half I am being ignored. I am a little shy sometimes but I have always been nice and friendly and respectful around people he knows. He has also lost friendships since we got together, but he says that is because he is not that same guy - he used to go out with his buddies drinking at bars and do the stuff single guys would do.
There has been many problems between me and his immediate family. they have been mean and rude to both me and my kids. It is at the point now that we don't want to see them anymore and we won't be. I told my dh the other night that he will go to holidays alone and smile and only say nice things about me and the kids. I brought 2 kids into our marriage and they are not accepted by his family and they make it very known.
Why? Well we have not had the best relationship. We argue alot and I have kicked him out many times. But the thing is, none of those people know what he has done to me. I often wonder how they can hate me so much and not ever think "there is 2 sides" ... I have asked my DH many times what he has said to make people act like this towards me and he says nothing at all and he always says nobody hates you. But they do.