Seriously ladies you want to know if you should ALLOW your DH/SO to do something. Do you like asking for permission to do things you want? I guess because there is no jealous bone in my body that I could care less what my DH does. He goes out with his friends every Saturday night. He goes out for beers after work and doesn't tell me all the time. If he is not home for dinner I just pop a plate in the fridge for him. I don't feel the need to call or text him if he is late coming home and I don't ask him where he has been. But he usually tells me once he gets home. I trust him 100% if I didn't I wouldn't be with him. It just makes me laugh that many of actually expect your DH/SO to ask permission. Its a relationship between two adults. They are not your children! If I were as controlling as that he would have left awhile back. And if he were that controlling I would have left too!