I want to know the gender of my baby. Dhs family are begging me to find out so they can send me things since they live in California and we are in Florida. I won't be able to have a baby shower because I don't live near anyone I know. My mom was just on the phone yelling at me saying why can't I just have a surprise. And that I need to just buy green and yellow things. I DONT LIKE GREEN OR YELLOW I LIKE PINK OR BLUE. she just doesn't get it.