How many of your husbands say this crap??? Update*****
I'm always fighting with him. I stick up for myself saying That i have had 5 kids, my youngest is almost 6 months, and That I work full time, and have to clean, cook, take care of 4 kids, clean up after him. He says That my full time job isn't as good as his full time walmart job.That he doesn't have to clean up after himself. He leaves his clothes, dishes, baby diapers anywhere he pleases. I come hone to a disaster everyday. He tries to make the girls do everything. He makes fun of them to the point that they cry. I yell at him to stop, and he keeps going on. He threatens to call cps when he has trashed the house. Saying that the kids will be taken away. And I will go to jail and he will be free. Then he turns around and says that he will take the kids away from me. The kids hate him cuz he is soo mean. He calls me and the kids dumb bitches, stupid, lazy trash, etc. I have tried counseling and he makes it all about him. It's pointless. I can't financially pay all the bills on my own. He has refused to pay for bills that we have accrued together just because my name is on them. If I ask him for help with dishes etc he completely ignores me.