I think everyone has their own way of doing things. How can you give your attention to 10+kids?
I have seen that 19 kids and counting show. It always looks like the older kids are helping out the younger kids. I understand that is a lot of kids and surely the mom would need some help.
Is that fair to the older kids though? Is it fair to the younger kids to depend on older siblings much of the time?
I am not bashing anyone. I am really trying to understand. If you have a lot of kids, please enlighten me