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Unwed mothers and illegitimate children.

Anonymous
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Illegitimate children are now suddenly legitimate? It wasn't that long ago that a single unwed mother couldn't properly register her bastard child. WTF? It's just another example of "Everyone gets an award." Women used to be shamed out of having kids out of wedlock. A single unwed mother was an outcast. She knew she did wrong, and paid the price for it. That kept women pure. What the fuck happened?!?!?!?! Suddenly it's ok to sleep with every guy in town and not know who the father of your child is? And not only is it ok, but we approve it by giving them assistance to take care of their bastard children? More than ever, a woman in today's world has no excuse to get pregnant outside of rape or incest. There are a million forms of birth control, something that wasn't available to women only a few generations ago. You could even use more than one form if you want to! There's no excuse! And now that we have DNA testing, I think once a man of an illegitimate child is proven the father, he shouldn't be forgiven either. Castrate him and prevent him from deflowering other poor unsuspecting women! Where the hell did we go wrong as a society? Over the years we should have become more strict. Instead, we have 48hr marriages, and unwed women with 3 different kids with 3 different men. This is the new normal. SMDH.

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 22, 2013 at 10:27 PM
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ElysMommy4.1.10
by New Member on Feb. 23, 2013 at 8:43 AM
I go to Church & believe in a higher power who will judge you one day just like you so willing judge every one else. That is right, I do go to Church & I do read the Bible but guess what I'm not a Saint like you claim to be, I'm not quick to judge others, & I don't try to get every one to believe or follow in the same religion that I do. We all have our OWN rights. Just like people who have kids out of wedlock you aren't going to be the one to judge them in the end so keep your dirty trap shut & on a different note those children did nothing wrong & had no control in the matter. I know what the meaning of calling them bastard children is wow they don't know who their father is big whoop atleast they are being fed, clothed, sheltered, & most of all loved. Quit calling them "Bastards" you twit! You make me sick.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 23, 2013 at 8:45 AM
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I thought there used to be shame in being a raging lunatic also but somehow you have overcome that,  so why shouldn't unwed mothers get the same chance?

stressed-mom
by Member on Feb. 23, 2013 at 8:49 AM
Wow r u bitter n how many of those kids do u have


Quoting Anonymous:

Deflowering. Lol


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Kat31
by Gold Member on Feb. 23, 2013 at 9:20 AM
290 after a divorce?


Quoting ashwalk26:

Obviously you are the perfect person! A child is only illegitimate if the child was born before 290 after a divorce or the mom doesn't know the dad. An that can happen different way! Who are you to judge someone's situation. I am not married but with the father of my child. And I'm on no assistance. People like you make people like me want to strangle the shit out of ignorant people

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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 23, 2013 at 10:15 AM

Umm I have one child and I am glad I did not marry the father.  I guess I have no shame

ERMAGERRD
by Gold Member on Feb. 23, 2013 at 10:19 AM


This lol

Quoting Newmom8912:

So is my son only half a bastard since we got married after?



ElysMommy4.1.10
by New Member on Feb. 23, 2013 at 11:01 AM
Your child is no bastard neither are other people children. The person who wrote this post is ignorant.... I wish they would read my replies & try to come up with some excuse to say som thing else so ignorant. Obviously she is from the stone age

Quoting ERMAGERRD:


This lol


Quoting Newmom8912:

So is my son only half a bastard since we got married after?




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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 23, 2013 at 11:08 AM
I'm shocked that men are still deflowering anyone.
Momniscient
by Platinum Member on Feb. 23, 2013 at 11:12 AM
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Oh yes. Lets pine for 'the good old days' when women had a proper place, blacks weren't people, asians went in internment camps and it was cool to destroy a persons life cause they once may have sat next to a suspected communist in a coffee shop.



Remember when it was totally acceptable to publicly call people n*ggers? Do you also pine for those days OP?
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redneckmama4
by Loree on Feb. 23, 2013 at 11:15 AM
There seems to be a new normal for stupid as well. You sound normal...
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