Then my Niece comes up to me and says "I always have to decide everything when I'm with Daddy and/or Uncle. I hate having to pick dinner and what we do all the time. Can't they just be the grown ups?" Haha! I tried not to laugh in her face. My 8 year old stepdaughter runs things in our home too. DH would never dream of doing something she didn't want to do, we'll unless my. 5 year old stepson threw a tantrum about it. Then he gets his way.
I am getting off the point.
At 11:30 I was really tired, so I said good night to everyone. Made sure they knew they were welcome to anything in the fridge, how to use the remotes (even thiugh we'd been over it all before a thousand times) and that the bathroom was tidy, and I went to bed.
DH is FURIOUS because BIL thought Niece wanted to watch another movie and I wasn't out there to watch with them. He says it was rude of me to go to bed, and my Niece didn't get her way. I say, they could have watched it without me, if she really wanted to. And, I'm not staying up later than I want to to please an 11 year old. Not even my own kid. If she/he's not sick and not an infant, I'm going to bed when I'm tired.