They were high school sweethearts and she told me before they got married she got married because she didn't know anything else.
So on to my story and question.
They moved away from all of their friends and they are miserable. They are both having a hard time making friends and both want to move back here soon.
To help my friend joined a boxing gym and became friendly with all the staff, especially one guy in particular.
When that guy moved to a different gym (he's a personal trainer) she moved with him.
When he moved again she moved as well.
Once more. He moved and she followed.
She goes to work out with him every morning before work and most mornings she and he will go eat breakfast before hand as well.
They text each other throughout the day, not sure of the extent of it but it has nothing to do with the workout.
She tells him her problems with her husband and he's made several comments about her getting a divorce and how he would never treat her that way.
She and I talk daily and she will go on and on about this guy and something funny he said or did and then towards the end of the convo she will bitch about her husband and spend not even half as much time talking about the man she married.
I've told her on several occasions that she needs to be careful and that the man was wrong to tell her to divorce and that it sounds like an emotional affair. She of course denies it. When I ask her how she would feel if it was her husband that had this sort of relationship with another woman she says she wouldn't like it but then she changes the subject and tells me he's not like that, that she sees this guy as a big brother and nothing more.
She doesn't hide this guy from her husband but I also don't think he knows how friendly they are.
I know there isn't a lot I can do, I've warned her several times and she's in denial and of course I have no plans to tell her husband but would you think it sounds like an emotional affair to you?