and read some EXTREMLY inappropriate texts between her and some young boys. i can not believe my eyes what both her and these boys were saying! I talked to her a little aboout it and learned she has self esteem issues. she feels texting and talking to boys in that context is the only way she will get boys to like her. i have always been there for my nephews 110% for everything...but it seems differant now that i am handeling a 14yr old girl, the boys were so much easier to know what to say for some reason. what do i do, what do i say to her, how can i help her see she needs to have more self respect than this and that she is beautiful inside and out and does not need to degrade herself for a boy to see this??