What is it about good-looking "bad boys" that makes them so damn attractive and alluring??
Are you or have you ever been attracted to a bad boy?? I have. Several times in my life. The thing is though, with this last one who is an ex-friend/flame of mine and who stalked me for years, I just can't get him out of my system.......uuuugghh!!! He hasn't been in my life (in a normal way) for a few years, but he still maintains contact in this crazy indirect stalking way. He always played head games with me. Sometimes I couldn't help but laugh at his ridiculousness. But as hard as I have tried to not have feelings for him, I still do!! :( He is just coming out of a divorce - his second one and he sent me messages on facebook with a fake profile right around Valentine's day. I am 98% certain that it's him because he has done alot of crazy, weird crap to me over the years. He loves to play head games. I am no longer in love with him like I was years ago, (before I found out that he is certifiable) but I still have feelings for him and have this unexplainable magnetic pull towards him.......crazy, right??!!!! I used to want him to call me directly, but now I am almost afraid that he will. And if that happens, I am really scared that I will want to be with him again, although I don't trust him. So I don't know.........hoping that I can be strong like I have been and stay away because he is a dangerous man (in an emotional/mental sense) who has messed with my head and heart for a very long time!!! Can anyone tell me why I still find him alluring and haven't been able to completely get him out of my system?? Have any of you been in this boat and can relate to me? I just don't want to get emotionally hurt by him again in the event that he contacts me directly and I weaken. My head is saying stay far away from him, but my heart is saying, why haven't I been able to let go after all that he has put me through? Any advice for me? I know that I can stay strong........as long as he doesn't call me!! But now that he's divorced and is lonely and looking for love, he may reach out to me. I hope that my mind overpowers my heart.