What is it about good-looking "bad boys" that makes them so damn attractive and alluring??
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Are you or have you ever been attracted to a bad boy?? I have. Several times in my life. The thing is though, with this last one who is an ex-friend/flame of mine and who stalked me for years, I just can't get him out of my system.......uuuugghh!!! He hasn't been in my life (in a normal way) for a few years, but he still maintains contact in this crazy indirect stalking way. He always played head games with me. Sometimes I couldn't help but laugh at his ridiculousness. But as hard as I have tried to not have feelings for him, I still do!! :( He is just coming out of a divorce - his second one and he sent me messages on facebook with a fake profile right around Valentine's day. I am 98% certain that it's him because he has done alot of crazy, weird crap to me over the years. He loves to play head games. I am no longer in love with him like I was years ago, (before I found out that he is certifiable) but I still have feelings for him and have this unexplainable magnetic pull towards him.......crazy, right??!!!! I used to want him to call me directly, but now I am almost afraid that he will. And if that happens, I am really scared that I will want to be with him again, although I don't trust him. So I don't know.........hoping that I can be strong like I have been and stay away because he is a dangerous man (in an emotional/mental sense) who has messed with my head and heart for a very long time!!! Can anyone tell me why I still find him alluring and haven't been able to completely get him out of my system?? Have any of you been in this boat and can relate to me? I just don't want to get emotionally hurt by him again in the event that he contacts me directly and I weaken. My head is saying stay far away from him, but my heart is saying, why haven't I been able to let go after all that he has put me through? Any advice for me? I know that I can stay strong........as long as he doesn't call me!! But now that he's divorced and is lonely and looking for love, he may reach out to me. I hope that my mind overpowers my heart.
No. I think women are masochistic.
Honestly, women are just stupid most of the time. They long to be the ONE that straightens up the bad boy.
Quoting ElitestJen:
No. I think women are masochistic.
Honestly, women are just stupid most of the time. They long to be the ONE that straightens up the bad boy.
Well I am not a stupid woman OR masochistic!! lol I just had this intense chemistry with him. You know the kind that you just don't find very often. I think that's what it is. Or maybe I am just attracted to someone who is exciting and dangerous!! I am smart enough to know that I can't change him. I have resisted him for many years actually. Hoping I can continue that in the event that he contacts me directly because I really don't want to get hurt again!! I am pretty sure that I can be strong because I have alot to lose if I'm not!!
OK jensen might not have the whole "bad boy" persona, I just like to look at him =)
Quoting jaysmommy04:Ummmmm
Who knows?
Doing the dishes gets me going! Ha.
You know what would be better than the whole bad boy thing? Jensen, Charlie, and Johnny all in my kitchen doing the dishes right now =) That would be the icing on the hot guy cake!
Quoting mommytoeandb:
No. Doesn't do a thing for me.
Doing the dishes gets me going! Ha.
Charlie is gorgeous!
Quoting jaysmommy04:Ummmmm
Who knows?
I think my husband's a sociopath