I'm having a girl the end of march and I've had her name picked out since basically day one. I chose Lucy. It's a name I love and would have used with my last but I had a boy. I'm not in a relationship with the baby's father. In the beginning he kinda seemed like he wanted to be involved and a there were a few times we threw name ideas around. Then one day back in the start of December he text me saying he wished I had ha an anortion and he felts like his life was ruined. Then about a week later he has a public conversation in Facebook with another girl about how he hopes the kid isn't his and just saying other hurtful things about me and the baby. So for like a month and a half we didn't talk. Just recently have we kinda been talking to me. Then tonight he tells me he hates the name Lucy. He says he doesn't think he'll like her because of her name and just hearing her name pisses him off. I'm torn o what to do. I love the name. Everyone already calls her Lucy including my 6 yr old DD and 16 month old DS. Her name is Lucy! But he wants me to change it. He's making it seem like he doesn't want to be involved with her if I don't change her name. I feel so hurt. He's known for a while now that I chose the name Lucy an he's just now saying he doesn't like it. I feel like its unfair of him to ask me to change her name now. I'm just so disappointed in him. Idk what to do. I've tried including him in everything from the start buts he's so flaky. When I had first told him I picked Lucy Kathleen as her name he said he didn't like Kathleen and so I agreed to chane that. We were going through other middle name ideas. So it's not like I'm totally willing to uncompromise, I'm just not when it comes to her first name.