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HUGE UPDATE!!! Has this ever been STOLEN from you?

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
Update: So late last night while SO was at work he text me and came clean. He took them. Which I already knew based on the facts and my gut feeling.

He said he was super pissed and stressed
Wasnt thinking at all and had a momentary lapse of judgment. He said he felt bad after he left my place, and got scared cause he's never stolen anything before. He said he then got rid of the pills. I asked him what he did with them and he said he gave them to some old drunk guy at the bar.

At this point I was FURIOUS!
I asked him why he didnt just confess and give them back when I had him come over to get his things out of my place. He said he didnt want to do that in front of my friend. So I told him that he obviously values his pride over hurting me the one person he claims to love. I told him to grow up, man up and own what he did and stop making excuses.

Then I asked him if he really didnt take any and to be honest. He said he took one and gave the rest to the old guy. Once again I was pissed he didnt tell me the whole truth when he confessed. I told him I cant trust him at all, what he did severely hurt me, and I cant have my daughter around someone who does things like that and now ill always worry on if it would happen again.

So I told him were done and that it was a deal breaker. I do love him very much but this is something too serious. At least to me it is.




Ok, so I need advice from people that had this happen to them.



I get a prescription every month for Percocet due to my stage 4 endometriosis. My period is due in 2 days, so I dropped my script off yesterday at Walgreens. My car is now broken. So I asked if my SO could please pick it up for me. He did, dropped it off, and left right away to go meet his parents.



Later in the day while in my kitchen, I noticed the bag wasnt stapled shut anymore. I thought it was odd. So I decided to count the pills. I am 4 pills short. I called Walgreens and they originally double counted it before it was picked up, and then they counted the stock bottle just to make sure. Their numbers were correct and they were not 4 pills over.



My SO was the only person to have access to it before I did. I confronted him on it and he swears to God he did not take them. He said he loves me way too much to do anything so stupid. That he'd never take my meds that are for me to help my excruciating pain.



I automatically blamed him. For the fact that growing up he used to do drugs and pills. He's been sober a few years now and often says how he'd never want to go down that road again. Especially since one of his best friends died due to a pill overdose.



I want to believe him, I really do, but its hard to argue the facts. I need to ensure my dd and I are safe and he knows that ANY drug use that isnt prescribed to him by a doctor is an automatic deal breaker.



I told him to get his things and leave for now. I just feel so hurt. If you've had this happen to you, how did that person act? How did you go about it, and what did you do?
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 23, 2013 at 10:41 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 23, 2013 at 10:50 PM
Oh wow. Thats horrible!

Quoting headingsouth13:

 i have had whole bottles stolen

lunabella79
by Platinum Member on Feb. 23, 2013 at 10:50 PM
How old us your DD?
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annas_momma
by Platinum Member on Feb. 23, 2013 at 10:50 PM
My sister swore up and down every time she stole my meds that she would NEVER do such a thing. She got more and more bold. One time taking my entire bottle of cough syrup before I could even take a dose.

I had ways of making her walk herself into a confession every time.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Feb. 23, 2013 at 10:51 PM
I had a cousin, you called a prescription into CVS with her doctors stolen code. She used my name and picked them up. I lost my job, I had cps investigating me and had to spend 23 active hours ( over a month ) proving it wasn't me, because the security footage was crappy

I don't allow druggies into my life
momofqtees
by on Feb. 23, 2013 at 10:51 PM

Could anyone have touched them on the counter.  I mean it is totally up to you, but over 4 percocet you might destroy your family.  Marriage is supposed to be based on trust.  Make sure NO ONE was in your house.  Did he run in somewhere with the pills in the car?  Well good luck anyway

MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Feb. 23, 2013 at 10:51 PM

 Well, he tookm them. Don't send him to get the meds anymore so this can't happen again.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 23, 2013 at 10:51 PM
But he hasnt come clean and I doubt he will. Hes so adamant he didnt take them. He keeps sending me texts saying he swears he didnt take them and he loves me so much. Part of me wants to get an at home drug test. =\

Quoting KristenFowles:

 I'm sorry momma but.. It was probably him.. :/


I don't see it as something you CAN'T work through if he comes clean about it though..

svolkov
by Emerald Member on Feb. 23, 2013 at 10:52 PM
Hes guilty. My step dad steals meds.


Quoting Anonymous:

How did that person act when confronted?



Quoting Anonymous:

no never meds , ive had other things stolen


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svolkov
by Emerald Member on Feb. 23, 2013 at 10:52 PM
Thats even more guilty actions. Ditch him


Quoting Anonymous:

But he hasnt come clean and I doubt he will. Hes so adamant he didnt take them. He keeps sending me texts saying he swears he didnt take them and he loves me so much. Part of me wants to get an at home drug test. =\



Quoting KristenFowles:

 I'm sorry momma but.. It was probably him.. :/



I don't see it as something you CAN'T work through if he comes clean about it though..


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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 23, 2013 at 10:53 PM
Shes 6.

Quoting lunabella79:

How old us your DD?
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